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Nothing against Starbucks. My point was to be unique. A trendy coffe shop looks more impressive than a Starbucks, and makes you out to be more bohemian. Maybe it depends on what your looking for too. I tend to like women that are sophositicated and this is a good test for me to find out what...

Hey fellow DJers, Have not posted here in a while, I check back on this site every once in a while. I've been a member since 2000, back in my dark, lonely, AFCish college days. Anyway, after reading the DJ bible, working on your game, and getting those numbers you need to find a place to...

That is true. Society does still tend to push AFC behavoir with women. I forwarded this and sosuave to a friend who is going to reveal his crush to a girl hes in the friendszone with. I felt like rolling up a newspaper, swatting him and saying bad AFC, bad bad lol

Look at this article on MSN this morning by a cosmo columnist on how to not get lbjed. http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=4041&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6&GT1=6771 It actually seems that the mainstream media is catching on to how relationships work now...

I read this site often, drop in a line or two every once in a while, and after being on the forum for four years, it amazes me to see the sheer number of whiney afc's flood this board. I don't blame them as much as I blame a society that is trying to rape us of our masculinity. Its a sad...

Pugsly, I'm about 6'4 250, so I have to look for clothes that fit my height and wieght. I totally understand the frustration. I have a unique but more versatile size, wearing about 40-42 in pants, 48 suit, 17 1/2 neck, and generally stick with XL clothes, though XLT is prefered. I tend to...

Hate to be negative but... Double J, Don't go back to see that girl. If she is not responding back to you when your online , and she says shes busy with work and school, shes blowing you off dude. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if she liked you, she would have made time to be with...

Blinky, If reading body language works for you, thats great and I wish you success. For most of us, especially those starting out, it does not. Your right. Reading body languare is a skill that can help. However, most guys I know and alot of people who post here spend more time reading...

Great Post You hit the nail on the head my friend. Risk is what life is all about, with women and in life. I moved from Buffalo NY where there are no jobs to Washington DC to work in politics and eventually business. I started here makeing 6 bucks and commision fundraising, living in a room 4...

" Paralysis by Over-Analysis!!! " I like that One on One. That summed up everything I tried to say in one word. I also like the temputure analogy. The human mind can play tricks on you. One of my major weaknesses is that I over anyalyze everything, so I have learned to just simplify by not...

"Look for what's there and accept it for what it is without overanalyzing.. That's what he meant imo. And when in doubt, don't come crying to us, take action and get your real answer - which is better than agonizing for days whether or not she likes you while you hear all our contradicting...

I feel real bad for the newbies in this forum. I remember when I used to agonize over why this girl did this or that or what she meant by saying this, and it would drive me nuts. Eventually I just got sick of reading them, and approached women, went for a number, and did not trust a reaction...

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Don't Hate I agree with these other posts. I have a lot to learn, but I am no newbie. This guy actually had the balls to take what he wanted. I used to get all pissed off at friends or co workers who had game out of pure jealousy until I found out that learning from them works better than...

Here is a psychological trick that I have been using to help me with my dating efforts when it comes to nexting a women. If you ever played or coached a team sport, say baseball, football, basketball, hockey, whatever, you should know that being too one dimensional in the players you have, and...

Maverick: No, I said listening to the women in my office, and hearing their complaints on dating was as good as boot camp for learning just how women rate and date guys. Sorry if I didn't make that clear. And I have done the boot camp and its awesome. Ten times better than the people who...

I thougth this might perk people up who have a hang up on their looks not getting women: In my office, there are about five or six women who rank from 7-10s. Now I am always in the office, and hear their BS( which is more useful than the bootcamp to learn DJing skills because you see just...

Flaking Is A Part Of Dating I'm finding as I stumble around trying to be a good DJ that I will get 3 flakes for every 10 numbers I get. You can't try to read people. Some women are just attention *****s. They will give you the imepression that you are the greatest guy on earth, and then laugh...

I've been there man, but I seriously don't get that pissed anymore. Its the way things are. If I get ****ed over, I just get all pissed for one night, go to sleep, and the next day focus on getting another date and chalk it up to a learning experience. Women can suck, but they also blow so thats...

A Vote For No I have to say that it depends on you are. I usaully find that of course, I can only freinds with women I am not attracated to. Alot of times those women end up getting attracted to me later on and it causes me a big mess. For me, there are three classes of women: Ones I am...