BramhaBull60
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I read this site often, drop in a line or two every once in a while, and after being on the forum for four years, it amazes me to see the sheer number of whiney afc's flood this board.
I don't blame them as much as I blame a society that is trying to rape us of our masculinity. Its a sad statement to come on this site, which should be a sanctuary from the whiney AFC'S that populate my office, social circles, families ect and find all this whiney, wierd behavior. It seems like with the popularity of the site, more AFC's are on the boards then real DJ's, and even with a website filled with great articles and advice people still complain and don't get it. So I am providing this list of what this site has helped me realize and I hope it helps:
1) MOST IMPORTANT LESSON I LEARNED
Getting laid or getting a girlfriend is a lot of fun and a great accomplishment, but it should not be your life. Enjoy your life, your freedom in being single, the freedom flirt and play. You will never have this again if and when you marry or get into a LTR. And by putting the focus on being single, you will be much more attractive to women who do whatever they can to rope you in And most off all you will be relaxed and have alot of fun because you won't you give a ****. BEING SINGLE IS AWESOME.
2) STOP ASKING WHY
Why does she twirl her hair?.Why does she smile at me and then not call? Why does she ask me to cut my nuts off and dye my hair blue? STOP ASKING WHY. SHES A WOMEN. SHES WANTS ATTENTION. Seriously, you guys are killing yourselves by trying to read her signals. You know she likes when she sleeps with you, you know she doesn't when she stops sleepingwith you. I defer to Master DJ'S on how to keep the fires going.
3) I GIVE UP
Give up on what? There are billions of women out there. The handful that dump you or reject you were not a right fit. Life goes on, pick yourself up when you get dumped, and move on and learn from it.
4) MAKE YOURSELF INTERESTING
Buy new clothes, get a better job, read more books, ect... If your spending time watching Star Wars and playing Civilization your not going to be interesting. Find out what women you like are interested in and learn about it or improve yourself to acheive it.
5) DONT FOCUS ON ONE GIRL
This is the number one problem we all face. We find one person, focus all of our attetion on her, and then get mad when she doesn't turn out to be who we want her to be or that she does not like us. Women to me, and this is simplistic but true,are like leaves in the fall: Plenty of different shapes, sizes, colors but all beautiful in their own way and easy to grab and pick up. Corny, but it helps me to not fixated on one chick.
Overall love yourselves, your friendships, your job, your hobbies ect and stop thinking that a women or many women is the end all of your life. Stop acting weak, be strong, be independent, and for godsakes BE A MAN. Women will flock to you.
I don't blame them as much as I blame a society that is trying to rape us of our masculinity. Its a sad statement to come on this site, which should be a sanctuary from the whiney AFC'S that populate my office, social circles, families ect and find all this whiney, wierd behavior. It seems like with the popularity of the site, more AFC's are on the boards then real DJ's, and even with a website filled with great articles and advice people still complain and don't get it. So I am providing this list of what this site has helped me realize and I hope it helps:
1) MOST IMPORTANT LESSON I LEARNED
Getting laid or getting a girlfriend is a lot of fun and a great accomplishment, but it should not be your life. Enjoy your life, your freedom in being single, the freedom flirt and play. You will never have this again if and when you marry or get into a LTR. And by putting the focus on being single, you will be much more attractive to women who do whatever they can to rope you in And most off all you will be relaxed and have alot of fun because you won't you give a ****. BEING SINGLE IS AWESOME.
2) STOP ASKING WHY
Why does she twirl her hair?.Why does she smile at me and then not call? Why does she ask me to cut my nuts off and dye my hair blue? STOP ASKING WHY. SHES A WOMEN. SHES WANTS ATTENTION. Seriously, you guys are killing yourselves by trying to read her signals. You know she likes when she sleeps with you, you know she doesn't when she stops sleepingwith you. I defer to Master DJ'S on how to keep the fires going.
3) I GIVE UP
Give up on what? There are billions of women out there. The handful that dump you or reject you were not a right fit. Life goes on, pick yourself up when you get dumped, and move on and learn from it.
4) MAKE YOURSELF INTERESTING
Buy new clothes, get a better job, read more books, ect... If your spending time watching Star Wars and playing Civilization your not going to be interesting. Find out what women you like are interested in and learn about it or improve yourself to acheive it.
5) DONT FOCUS ON ONE GIRL
This is the number one problem we all face. We find one person, focus all of our attetion on her, and then get mad when she doesn't turn out to be who we want her to be or that she does not like us. Women to me, and this is simplistic but true,are like leaves in the fall: Plenty of different shapes, sizes, colors but all beautiful in their own way and easy to grab and pick up. Corny, but it helps me to not fixated on one chick.
Overall love yourselves, your friendships, your job, your hobbies ect and stop thinking that a women or many women is the end all of your life. Stop acting weak, be strong, be independent, and for godsakes BE A MAN. Women will flock to you.