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    Trust

    I just finished reading a thread on reddit about cheating girlfriends/boyfriends and everyone's experiences, and god d@mn that was depressing. After reading it, I got a little introspective and realized that I only really trust 3 people in my life. And by trust, I mean having complete faith in...
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    Facing Reality and Becoming a Man

    I'm posting in the mature man section because I'm looking for advice from those who have some years of widsom on me. I'm a 21 year old senior in college, graduating this upcoming May. But if anyone has any advice on these thoughts I'm having, please pass them along. I still feel...
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    Post breakup, I'm feeling devastated right now

    I'm the one who broke up with her. In the end, my interest level was a lot lower than hers was. She wanted to spend every waking minute with me, and I couldn't handle it. But, after the breakup, it's like my mind can only focus on all the great things about her. All of the amazing...
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    breakup ensuing...advice needed

    I'll try and paint a quick picture while still being as detailed as possible.... My LTR of about 2 years is a very needy girl. - She has spent time with me every day this semester, and sleeps over every chance she gets. - She says "I love you" constantly (at least 5-10 times a...
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    "we need a break" 3:41am...9:00am "or if you want you can take me to the movies"

    LTR of a little over 1 year hit me with this. A little background: She's been angry over the last week or two because I haven't paid as much attention to her (playin too many video games with my room mates and not talking enough). She tells me about this last night, I disagreed. My view...
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    How the **** do you dance?

    In college I've been going out and having fun at parties where we hang out n play drinking games. But when it comes to those big parties where its too loud to talk and all you can do is dance, get another drink, piss, and dance some more, I'm pretty terrible. I go into the night feeling...
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    The "I love you" bomb

    My girlfriend says this to me all the time...TOO much. Maybe 10-15 times a day? I used to reciprocate this all the time but after not seeing her for a few months I decided to stop doing that. Now when she says it I smile and kiss her or something like that. But she says it so damn much that...
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    Social Anxiety

    I just don't understand myself. Sometimes I can go out, talk with people n be natural, and generally have a great time. Other times, I freeze up, feel awkward, and feel that people can see right through anything I try to say and think I'm a freak. I needed to post something about this...
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    Body fat percentage

    I'm tall n skinny, n im not trying to bulk up huge or anything. I'd rather have a tall lean muscular look, something like ryan reynolds. To get that, I would need to cut my body fat percentage, while keeping weight, and if possible, even gaining some muscle mass in the process. I don't know...
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    I only enjoy deep conversation

    This site has helped me get over a lot of my social phobias, and I find approaching people and starting a conversation rather easy now. But the thing is, I always find the conversation stale. Even with friends, family, or my girlfriend, I have trouble getting immersed in the conversation. I...
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    LTR advice needed

    Long story short, I am currently in a relationship that has been going for about 7 months with a girl from university. We decided to keep it going for the summer, despite not being able to see each other for 3 months. This girl has been crazy for me the entire time we've been dating; cooks for...
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    Usual ratios of lifts (Squat vs Bench, etc.)

    After my first few weeks of training, I noticed all my lifts are very similar in weight. I would imagine that my squat and deadlift should be much higher than my bench. . .but here are my numbers. Bench - 115 3x5 Squat - 110 3x5 Deadlift - 115 1x5 Military - 95...
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    Where do Abs fit into the starting routines?

    I'm following EFFORT's option A in the "where to start" guide. Been doin it for about a month now, n I'm wonderin if I should throw in some ab exercises. If so, what are the most effective? Basically I'm just lookin for a solid abdominal routine to throw in with it. As of now I do...
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    First opportunity to spin plates...n i already suck at it

    I'm involved with this girl. We were dating then broke it off, n now we hook up every now. She wants something more and I'm happy to be there to f@ck her, and be there for her sometimes. Now that I think about it I guess we still are in a relationship, but after I told her I needed space...
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    I do not enjoy socializing

    So my freshman year of college was primarily spent smoking weed n being a recluse. I wasn't a virgin, I could get girls attracted to me...but always found this extremely difficult in the situations where most people find it easy (parties, bars, etc.) So I began working on my socializing skills...
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    Received pics of my gf from 2 different out of state numbers

    I'm in college, its Christmas break, so everyone is back at their respective homes. My gf has been sending some pictures of herself to my cellphone for the last few days. However, tonight I got 2 more of these pics (clearly from the same set) from two different numbers. I checked the area...
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    I'm setting myself up for disaster

    For the first time ever, I stopped caring about girls and started caring about me. I see all the advice here, things like "focus on yourself", "get a hobby", and "be decisive, know what you want in life". I am writing this because when it comes to this stuff, I AM A COMPLETE AFC. I'm with...
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    Do you say "I love you" every time she does?

    Title :rock:
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    2 months later, and the sex is already dying

    Even though its only been two months, everything in bed seems to have changed already. I can still get her to orgasm every time, but she is never nearly as wet as she used to be earlier in the relationship, making everything else that much harder. Is this an early sign of waning attraction...
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    Achieving Happiness..avoiding depression

    Im young, but I've had a hell of a great life. Starting with great loving parents, lots of friends, and LOTS of opportunities, I consider myself extremely privileged. Yet, I can't escape this feeling, it's been there my entire life. I think its depression, spurred by heavy anxiety. But when...
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