Long story short, I am currently in a relationship that has been going for about 7 months with a girl from university. We decided to keep it going for the summer, despite not being able to see each other for 3 months. This girl has been crazy for me the entire time we've been dating; cooks for me in bed, surprises me with little gifts, and is glued to me whenever possible. She was constantly worried that I would leave her and forget her over the summer.
The first few weeks apart were the same as back at school, her constantly texting me, begging me to call, even sending me naked pictures of her nightly.
But this is all slowing way down. Spending this much time apart just seems to be cooling everything off. I'm great in bed with her, so I'm worried that without being able to get physical with her she is slowly losing interest.
For example, for the first few weeks when she would miss my call she would almost immediately call me back and be all geeky happy. Today I called her and got a response back saying, "sorry, I was drinking a juice box that was really loud and didn't hear my phone go off." Lol wtf is that?
When i asked her what she did that night she said she watched a movie with "the girls". Knowing that all her girlfriends except one was outta town I asked which girls she was chillin with. She responded it was her best friend, her best friends boyfriend, and the boyfriends room mate. . .doesn't exactly sound like a night "with the girls". Things like this wouldn't usually bother me except for the fact that she has changed over the past week or two, from constantly trying to talk to me and get my attention to caring less and less.
My chumpish emotions and insecurities are continuing to pile up as I spend more time away, as is apparent in the worried paragraph above. I'm starting to get tempted to go spin plates n work on other girls, but I'm afraid that I'll just end up cheating on her to protect my ego in the future just in case she does end up hurting me. I could really use some advice for keeping LTR's interesting while they're long distance. . .I have 2 more months to go and its already getting tough. Apologies for the long read...thanks for helpin though.
peace
The first few weeks apart were the same as back at school, her constantly texting me, begging me to call, even sending me naked pictures of her nightly.
But this is all slowing way down. Spending this much time apart just seems to be cooling everything off. I'm great in bed with her, so I'm worried that without being able to get physical with her she is slowly losing interest.
For example, for the first few weeks when she would miss my call she would almost immediately call me back and be all geeky happy. Today I called her and got a response back saying, "sorry, I was drinking a juice box that was really loud and didn't hear my phone go off." Lol wtf is that?
When i asked her what she did that night she said she watched a movie with "the girls". Knowing that all her girlfriends except one was outta town I asked which girls she was chillin with. She responded it was her best friend, her best friends boyfriend, and the boyfriends room mate. . .doesn't exactly sound like a night "with the girls". Things like this wouldn't usually bother me except for the fact that she has changed over the past week or two, from constantly trying to talk to me and get my attention to caring less and less.
My chumpish emotions and insecurities are continuing to pile up as I spend more time away, as is apparent in the worried paragraph above. I'm starting to get tempted to go spin plates n work on other girls, but I'm afraid that I'll just end up cheating on her to protect my ego in the future just in case she does end up hurting me. I could really use some advice for keeping LTR's interesting while they're long distance. . .I have 2 more months to go and its already getting tough. Apologies for the long read...thanks for helpin though.
peace
