I'm in college, its Christmas break, so everyone is back at their respective homes. My gf has been sending some pictures of herself to my cellphone for the last few days. However, tonight I got 2 more of these pics (clearly from the same set) from two different numbers. I checked the area codes on these numbers and they are from two separate states, both of which are far away from where me or my gf lives OR where we go to school. WTF?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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Received pics of my gf from 2 different out of state numbers
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Neurosponge
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did you try texting/calling those numbers? That will give you a good clue (if it's a guy or what).
As for not sleeping, this means you are overly (read AFC) concerned and worried... IMO you're setting yourself up for a very heartbreaking ordeal if worse comes to worse.
As for not sleeping, this means you are overly (read AFC) concerned and worried... IMO you're setting yourself up for a very heartbreaking ordeal if worse comes to worse.
everywomanshero
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My psychic powers are currently down.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ThatMysteriousGuy
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Who cares? Really. You can't sleep over this?vlf445 said:
Cripes man, you're going to lose your girlfriend if you get suspicious over things that could have a brazillion reasons all of which would not be suspicious.
I mean, let's say we're going for the worst option: Your girlfriend is sending pictures of herself across the united states in a master plan to get at least one on a phone in each state. Like a reverse scavenger hunt. Then, we could add that each person getting a picture randomly chose your phone number to forward it to out of 200,000,000 phone numbers.
Buy a lottery ticket tomorrow.
And, get some sleep you bonehead.
Or, if you still can't sleep after a while, take pictures of yourself and send them back.
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maybe shes borrwing peoples phones??
PlaysToWin
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Could there be a technical explanation for this? Maybe there was a glitch in the phone service provider and it caused the wrong number to be attached to messages that your gf sent? It's certainly unusual, but things like this have been known to happen.
And if that's the case...maybe it's better you don't send any pics back to those numbers, hehe.
And if that's the case...maybe it's better you don't send any pics back to those numbers, hehe.
I've been trying to find out if there is a technical explanation...no luck. If anyone has any knowledge on the subject I'd really appreciate the help. I would love to put my mind at ease...whether for better or worse. Can a picture message be re-routed through somebody else's phone? Or am I gettin a fool made of myself...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PlaysToWin
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This is the best I can do: A relation of someone I know, an old lady who knew the land line number of a friend of hers off by heart, one day rung up her friend only to be out through to some other household. Naturally she assumed she rang the wrong number so she hung up and tried again only to get through to the same person. All sorts of crazy thoughts went through her head... was she going senile? Was there someone else in the house she was ringing? It later turned out (acknowledged by the phone company) that some weird switchboard glitch meant that for a few days, the phone numbers of 2 different houses were swapped.
Could something like this be happening in your case? Nobody knows. Look, you're not going to get the proof you need, I'm sorry to say. You're going to have to put your own mind at ease.
Can you think of any other plausable explanation? Are there any other indications that your girlfriend may be unfaithful? If the answer to both these questions is no then my advice is to assume the best and stop being so paranoid.
Could something like this be happening in your case? Nobody knows. Look, you're not going to get the proof you need, I'm sorry to say. You're going to have to put your own mind at ease.
Can you think of any other plausable explanation? Are there any other indications that your girlfriend may be unfaithful? If the answer to both these questions is no then my advice is to assume the best and stop being so paranoid.
15 responses and no one suggested the easiest way out: can you just bring it up with her?
from her response you will have a better feel of what's going on. If she comes up with an instant explanation that is simple and matter of fact, then you stop worrying.
If she takes a long pause, she gives you a far fetched explanation or loses her cool, then you know something is up. I also suggest doing this when you're face to face with her so you can better judge her reaction.
from her response you will have a better feel of what's going on. If she comes up with an instant explanation that is simple and matter of fact, then you stop worrying.
If she takes a long pause, she gives you a far fetched explanation or loses her cool, then you know something is up. I also suggest doing this when you're face to face with her so you can better judge her reaction.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PlaysToWin
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Yeah, but ths risks demonstrating your paranoia and insecurity to her.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Could she have friends home for x-mas from other states?
It's happened to me
This happened to me. Twice actually. Once on the date of this post and the other the day before. They both contained pictures of climbable places (been playing too much Assassin's Creed II recently) so I could tell they were coming from my friend. The one I got today replied saying that they had no clue what was going on and it was probably a glitch. I agree with this person, especially during this time, where people are communicating with one another, so numbers may just be glitched up and attached to different messages and what not. This may just be the same situation you're in, so don't let it trouble you. I'm sure that your girlfriend isn't cheating on you. Maybe the phone company's having problems, but you shouldn't be. Sleep well, my friend. :yes:
This happened to me. Twice actually. Once on the date of this post and the other the day before. They both contained pictures of climbable places (been playing too much Assassin's Creed II recently) so I could tell they were coming from my friend. The one I got today replied saying that they had no clue what was going on and it was probably a glitch. I agree with this person, especially during this time, where people are communicating with one another, so numbers may just be glitched up and attached to different messages and what not. This may just be the same situation you're in, so don't let it trouble you. I'm sure that your girlfriend isn't cheating on you. Maybe the phone company's having problems, but you shouldn't be. Sleep well, my friend. :yes: