"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First opportunity to spin plates...n i already suck at it

vlf445

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I'm involved with this girl. We were dating then broke it off, n now we hook up every now. She wants something more and I'm happy to be there to f@ck her, and be there for her sometimes. Now that I think about it I guess we still are in a relationship, but after I told her I needed space she's clinging to me more than ever. I want to keep her around because she can be a great girl, and we have a great time together in bed. I do not want to lose the daily opportunity of that fun. However....
a girl from class texted me today asking if id like to go out to dinner or lunch with her sometime. Interest level with her is high, and id like to keep it that way with both girls. Im just really stuck on how to respond to her text. I feel the need to mention that I'm already somewhat involved with someone, and see if she is willing to continue anyways. . .this is my first time really spinning plates...sh!ts already harder than I thought. Any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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drewsg

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You don't need to bring up or mention that you're seeing someone else unless the issue is brought up by her, or if you're in a LTR with this other woman. If you do, however, plan on seeing the other chick, you should be straight up with the first girl and let her know that you're dating other women.
 

Tiguere

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Its true ... I won't say lie your @ss off. But volunteering informartion is a no-no. Any quality woman will kick you to the curb if she finds out you are dating/spinning multiple women.
 
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