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    Open to suggestions on how to proceed

    Last night I talked to this girl I haven't talked to in a few months. We banged a few times but she was a pain to deal with when it came to planning things because shes so busy; she's pretty wealthy and always going places. So i stopped talking to her. She text me last night and asked if my...
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    Having Second thoughts about my decision (no contact/breakup)

    This isn't a case of typical non-contact where the woman broke up with me. I think I might have done everything wrong. So, I've been dating this woman for a little while now; boyfriend/girlfriend etc. She's cool, witty, sexual, and has good feminine values (thinks the woman should take care...
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    She tried to tool me... I went no contact... She contacts constantly

    Cute 8 with LSE (has a lot of men hitting on her all the time and always says things like, "i must look easy because i know they aren't hitting on me for my looks.") I've been having sex with this woman for 4 years. Periods where she'd date someone, and we wouldn't see each other for 6...
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    She gets pissed when i won't come out with her last minute.

    I had about a one month fling with this girl 5 months ago. It ended on pretty good terms and no bridges were burned. I "left her better than she was when i found her." Last week she randomly calls me. I answer, and she basically says she went back to her ex, but it's not working out, that he...
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    Facebook opener to girl from party (facebook game)

    Hey, so i went to a party saturday night. There was this girl there who was eyeballing me. One of her friends told me she wanted to talk to me; i told her i would eventually (didn't want to seem too eager).... Found out she's about 8 years younger than me (im 26 and she's 18 i think). I...
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    When they text "how's it going?" or similar

    Pretty simple question.... I don't know if it's just me or what... But Girls constantly text me questions like: "how's it going?" "how have you been?" "how was your weekend?" I normally try to respond with something witty, but even when i just give simple answers the result seems to be...
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    started starting strength (my overhead press is horrible!)

    All this week, im just learning each exercise the way it's taught on the starting strength site. I'm also testing to see what weight im comfortable with. I weigh 170 lbs. Friday - I did squats - determined i need to buy more weights because i can do all the weights i have (180 lbs)...
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    First thing out of her mouth: "I cheated on your today"

    Before you assume - she followed it up with "i went to salad works with [guy from work] today".... (slight laugh from her) I was silent.... "But i guess it's not cheating since i'm telling you"... (another little laugh from her) I'm still silent... then i change the subject... 1)...
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    It's not erectile disfuction i don't think...

    So, my FB was over on saturday, we were laughing and playing and about to have $ex (we were both naked and i was rock hard)... She said something that threw me off though; i don't even remember what it was - but it was something like "hurry up and put it in me... i need it (which isn't...
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    "so how was your weekend?" and similar small talk...

    I feel like i get sucked into small talk too much... questions such as "So How was your weekend? .... What did you do?" etc.... I try to make the best of these questions... but i feel like there's better ways to answer these questions... Girl (through text or on the phone): So, how was your...
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    she stopped taking sexual advances serious

    Girl i've been having sex with for a few months... At first we'd text each other very steamy text messages... and a lot of messages from her were like "i can't wait until you get over here and [explicit sexual comment]...." Lately - i've been making sexual comments to her, and instead of...
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    My FB+ bringing up this guy from work all the time

    So there's this girl who i have a "sexual plus some other stuff" relationship with for about 6 months now. She moved up to a higher depatment at her job and a new department means new people... Apparently there's this guy who is REALLY into her. Like buying her things (lunch, stuff...
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    Besides cutting contact - how can i punish this behavior?

    Please - im looking for some interesting ways to punish this behavior BESIDES ENDING IT AND CUTTING CONTACT (which is the obvious answer i think most will give; can we get something else? Some new ideas?) So i dated this girl for a good 2 years, and we ended up having a very mutual break up...
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    Benched 200 tonight (this may become a journal for a guy without a gym pass)

    I know that's not really that great. (i'm 170). But in 3 months. I've went from 160 to 170 body weight; and 145 (seriously) to 200 bench. Just going to share what I do because it's quite simple. I'm no expert, all that i've learned - i've learned from reading. All that i do - i do because i...
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    I need a life (career? money? etc)

    I'm f'ing unbelieveable... when i sit down and look at my life - I feel foolish... - I never took high school serious - I went to college for 2 semesters before falling in love with girl #1.. - Girl #1 became so much apart of my life - that i moved in with her and we got an apartment. I...
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    One of My FBs called out my "withdraw" from her

    Last night, my FB was staying over my house and she was being b!tchy every time i was trying to get a little heavy with her... (we've been FBs for over a year, so on an emotional level - it's closer to an "open" relationship; she sees other guys and i see other girls. but there's emotions...
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    Am i being too hard on her? (text message exchange)

    about 9 months of an open-relationship with this woman (she's the longest FB i've ever had lol)... she called me this afternoon after we had a hot and heavy email exchange and said she was skipping her first class to come see me (so we could drink and have cheese eggs)... that was around 5...
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    relationship problem - lack of sex

    about 4.5 years ago i came across this site; and it was the greatest help to my life ever! i printed out the whole dj bible, i printed out anything i could find on newsgroups... i studied it, practiced it at work, and then took it to the streets. i had been with 2 women before all of that... and...
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