returningchamp
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2006
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- 62
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Before you assume - she followed it up with "i went to salad works with [guy from work] today".... (slight laugh from her)
I was silent....
"But i guess it's not cheating since i'm telling you"... (another little laugh from her)
I'm still silent... then i change the subject...
1) this conversation was on the phone. she called - i picked up and those are literally the first thing she said!
2) i was steaming inside! this is like the 20th time she's brought up this guy. it started out with "this guy at work keeps bothering me; he's so weird"... lately it's been "this guy at work is so nice"... now it's going out to lunch with him??? he seems very afc, but he's also very ****y from what she says... like she told him he didn't have a chance with her and he laughed at it (which is a very good thing to do)... but on the other hand - he's always buying her gifts, bragging about how much money he makes, talking about how lonely he is!!! AND he already confessed that he "feels something very deep" for her....
3) im not her BF, but we do have an exclusive FB relationship.... we actually spend a lot more time together than normal FBs. This rel is over a year old!
4) Why the fvck would that be the first thing out of her mouth? it makes no sense to me!!!!! I understand it's a test, etc. But, why not sneak the test up on me... maybe later in the conversation?
blah.... makes me not want to fvck her anymore... like if i believe she's messing with some other dude, even for a second - we're done... not because im tring to be DJ, but because we don't use protection!
I was silent....
"But i guess it's not cheating since i'm telling you"... (another little laugh from her)
I'm still silent... then i change the subject...
1) this conversation was on the phone. she called - i picked up and those are literally the first thing she said!
2) i was steaming inside! this is like the 20th time she's brought up this guy. it started out with "this guy at work keeps bothering me; he's so weird"... lately it's been "this guy at work is so nice"... now it's going out to lunch with him??? he seems very afc, but he's also very ****y from what she says... like she told him he didn't have a chance with her and he laughed at it (which is a very good thing to do)... but on the other hand - he's always buying her gifts, bragging about how much money he makes, talking about how lonely he is!!! AND he already confessed that he "feels something very deep" for her....
3) im not her BF, but we do have an exclusive FB relationship.... we actually spend a lot more time together than normal FBs. This rel is over a year old!
4) Why the fvck would that be the first thing out of her mouth? it makes no sense to me!!!!! I understand it's a test, etc. But, why not sneak the test up on me... maybe later in the conversation?
blah.... makes me not want to fvck her anymore... like if i believe she's messing with some other dude, even for a second - we're done... not because im tring to be DJ, but because we don't use protection!