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Hey dude, I totally understand where you're coming from. What I've done in the past is to bring girls that I know along with me. We'll dance and I'll bring 2-3 girls next to me and dance with all of them at the same time. I'll be sandwiched between them. This gains social proof and it'll...

I totally get what you mean. It's been a while since I've seen my last oneitis but ever since I've been slowly getting better. Then one day, at this party I attended, as I was heading to the house I saw her come out and this other dude had his arms around her. I was in total shock. I felt...

Hey, Looks like you have yourself a solid girl. I'm not by all means suitable to give you this kind of advice (check my last thread) but if I were in your situation I would wait till the last second, of the last minute, of the last day of the bet... then just kiss her. Then tell her you...

Hey guys, Thanks for the replies. I'm just glad there's somewhere I can go and express how I'm really feeling about my situation. So far, it's been growing great. You can even say I feel a lot lighter now. I'll come back in a couple of weeks or a month and give you guys an update. Thanks...

Hey guys, a little update for those who are interested or what not. Went to a party and saw my oneitis there w/ her boyfriend. At first my friends were telling me that she was here... but i paid no mind. Then I finally saw her and her boyfriend holding each other as they were coming out of...

Whew. I'm so glad nobody said to go read the bible. Thing is i've never actually hooked up with anyone in a party before so I'm absolutely clueless. Going around asking people for opinion's wouldn't be a great idea either. I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of...

Going to a party w/ booze and tons and tons of hot girls.. and did i mention booze? Just wondering how do you guys hook up w/ girls in parties. Especially the ones you don't know. I have no idea how all this goes.

I have no idea. All I know is he's a tall guy, plays basketball, and he got a scholarship to a Uni in my city.

Well it's been a couple of hours since I heard the news. I'm feeling a TON better now though. I'm very very very slowly coming to terms with it. This was a real blow to me because I guess I've been putting way too much time and energy thinking about her. I still feel pretty crappy. Thing is...

Hey guys, Just recieved news that the person I have the biggest oneitis for now has a boyfriend. Honestly, I don't really know why I'm saying this except that right now I feel so horrible. I know I know.. the usual.. let her go.. fish in the see.. **** 10 other women.. blah blah...

You don't have to be good looking, you just have to look good. Groom yourself, change your hairstyle, change your clothes and yes go to the gym. Don't try to change the things you can't control and take initiative on the ones that you can. Skip's right to a certain extent only. A 3/10...

Hey great stuff man! I like your persistence and nonchalant attitude, especially when she kept testing you. I wonder why she ever did go back to her bf.

Hey guys, I find that there are some people that are just naturals at parties. Everytime they seem to go... they always end up making out with girls and having a blast. I'm almost sure that they don't have a guide like we do here in sosuave. My questions is... How are hooking up at...

Hey man, I totally feel you on this one because I am currently in this situation. I find it really hard and annoying that I can't fully get rid of my oneitis. There are days when I'm feeling very confident and I start to ask myself what the **** it was that I ever saw in my oneitis...

Hey guys, Like i said it's not my intention to bust on this guy. But you don't see top gurus saying they're this and that. They let the other guys do it for them. Again... just a reminder... It's not my intention to bust on this guy!

Hey, Although I DO admire all that inner game you have there is a bluff that i feel like i have to call. "A rich man doesn't have to say he's rich". Get it?

Hey man great thread! I too am a victim of sweaty palms. I can relate with you with the church thing because I go every sunday =(! Let us know how it goes so I'll order ASAP! P.S. My palms are sweaty as I"m typing this up NOW! LOL1

Hey, Thanks again for all the support. I'm starting to feel a lot better and my confidence is starting to rise again. Although, I still feel those itsy bitsy pieces of old emotions within me. I had to bail on a party today cause I was afraid those emotions might spring back up and hit me...

I definitely agree. I find that whenever I go out and sarge HB's my confidence is instantly to the roof. Then I slowly find myself forgetting about my oneitis until old feelings are gone. I think MOST cases of oneitis is not based on looks but more on personality similarities. I find that...

Hey guys, I appreciate the replies and different perspectives. Although, my goal here is not to hate her so much that I don't want to see her ever. That may not be your intentions but when I hear guys calling girls hoes, btiches and sluts I can't help but feel that you guys have taken a...