"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Saw an old oneitis I had from last year today. Just out of the blue. I hadn't thought about her for awhile but for some reason I just had a feeling that I would see her before going to a class of mine and bam she turns a corner and shes right in front of me. Didn't have a conversation just kind of smiled at each other.

But the weird thing was how much I felt exactly the same when I saw her as I did last year. Never had this happen before for a oneitis I saw again. I usually get completely over them and when I see them again I think how deluded I was before but this time it was as if she was prettier than before.

On a side note this summer I'm going with a group somewhere, five girls range from hb 7-8.5 one is a hb6 and one is a milf. I'm making it a goal to bang all of them before summer's up depending on which one's are still in the group when the summer starts. Not sure how realistic it is but always aim high. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wootapotky said:
Saw an old oneitis I had from last year today. Just out of the blue. I hadn't thought about her for awhile but for some reason I just had a feeling that I would see her before going to a class of mine and bam she turns a corner and shes right in front of me. Didn't have a conversation just kind of smiled at each other.

But the weird thing was how much I felt exactly the same when I saw her as I did last year. Never had this happen before for a oneitis I saw again. I usually get completely over them and when I see them again I think how deluded I was before but this time it was as if she was prettier than before.

On a side note this summer I'm going with a group somewhere, five girls range from hb 7-8.5 one is a hb6 and one is a milf. I'm making it a goal to bang all of them before summer's up depending on which one's are still in the group when the summer starts. Not sure how realistic it is but always aim high. :)

You saw your old oneitis? Why didn't you try to bang her?
 

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because I don't want oneitis again. Oneitis is bad. It turns you into a *****.

Yeah tell me about it.

But I have a feeling if I f-cked my old one-itis again it would alleviate some of my pain.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I totally get what you mean. It's been a while since I've seen my last oneitis but ever since I've been slowly getting better.

Then one day, at this party I attended, as I was heading to the house I saw her come out and this other dude had his arms around her. I was in total shock. I felt like I was in a movie when the main character would freeze with his jaw wide open cause his old nemesis that he thought he destroyed was staring him right in the face.

She said "hi" to me but I didn't say anything back cause I was take aback.
 
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