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One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

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How to hookup in parties?

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Going to a party w/ booze and tons and tons of hot girls.. and did i mention booze?

Just wondering how do you guys hook up w/ girls in parties. Especially the ones you don't know.

I have no idea how all this goes.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dance. Kino. Attraction establishment. Go for the kill.
 
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Uhh...it all starts with talking to them. Create attration, isolate, make a move. The same as going on a date, just an accelerated process with mass alcohol consumption.
 
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Whew. I'm so glad nobody said to go read the bible.

Thing is i've never actually hooked up with anyone in a party before so I'm absolutely clueless. Going around asking people for opinion's wouldn't be a great idea either.

I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of people are already hooking up (making out, kissing, some even having sex) and I just don't know how it got there. I mean these people are from different schools.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iCandy said:
I go to these parties all the time and when I arrive a couple of people are already hooking up (making out, kissing, some even having sex) and I just don't know how it got there. I mean these people are from different schools.
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There was a recent study done on this subject. They found out that the following formula held true to this certain situation.

Sluts + Alcohol = Easy sex
 
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