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Doesn't affect me anymore as I'm married but a topic that I've always had niggling doubts over. When I was single, I took a fair amount of advice on this forum to heart about not spending too much on early dates. I would typically have gone to a bar for a first date. Wouldn't have gone to super...

I've had worse dates when I was a complete braindead with women. However this date is the worst I've had since I became some bit alright with women. I'd been doing fairly well over the past few months so it was about time some bad luck came my way. So I met this girl in a pub / club two...

Ok, I've encountered this often enough over the past few months that I need to get straight what constitutes normal. My belief system about sexual order as it were went something like Dancing / Gridning and making out being on a par. Feeling up Handjob Oral Sex Sex I've encountered a good few...

This is probably a rant but hopefully it also raises a good point. I guess I fundamentally don't understand the american dating process. Nowadays, it seems expected for the guy to keep chasing for every step?? I'm basing this off the girls I've dated the last while. My understanding in...

A while back I remember reading somewhere that the strictly platonic section of craigslist was a decent online resource for chicks. So i decided to browse it. I emailed one chick whose ad piqued my interest. She's the same nationality as me (Irish) and was looking to meet an Irish person. She...

Curious as to what is your average for getting the lay when you head home with a girl from a pub / club. This includes when you go back to a house afterwards as a group for an after party and you isolate a girl at that party. Myself, I'm a disappointing .300 Is this a normal percentage...

Social game has always been something I've been poor at. I've never actually managed to hook up with a female acquaintance that I'd have known for a period of time. I've always felt more comfortable approaching women in an obvious "I want to date / f*ck you" manner. There's this girl who's a...

Met this girl on vacation in Cancun there last week. Ended up banging her (should write a LR on it, was an interesting night). She's about a HB6 and nearly 20yo. For too many reasons to mention she's certainly not ltr material, fairly heavy drug user (moderate myself) and fairly directionless...

I posted here a few weeks back about how I knew I had to break up with my gf over her cheating. Well, we fully broke up there what 2 weeks ago. She rang me today over tying up some loose ends and already she is dating someone else. I'm fairly sure that she has known him since the start of...

Tbh I'm pretty fresh from my break up with my gf of 2 years (posted about it in another thread) and need something else to occupy my thoughts. One of the societal myths scoffed at here is that the "good women" for marrying are generally gone by the time they're 30. I realize this isn't a hard...

Its amazing the mess you can create for yourself sometimes. I've been going out with my gf for nearly 2 years. Its important to note its my first major relationship. I'm 26. I posted before about having a big fight with my gf last August over moving in. She wanted to, I didn't Things had been...

I posted this issue on another website and got bogged down with people saying I must be really moody! I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. Ironically, I was the one who was a bit moody and who could get angry over nothing at the start. After about 8 to 10...

Not really a FR in the typical sense in that I have a gf and am not looking for someone else. This story might prove useful for others though. Myself and two buddies were in Toronto on Saturday night. I have to say, the place is f*king amazing! The amount of hot women (especially blonds) was...

Azanon I believed touched on this in another thread. For the record, I have never cheated on anyone I have gone out with. I'm currently with my gf for 9 months and its going great. I find her very sexy and she's excellent in bed. However I can definitely see how one can get bored of having the...

Bit of an odd question maybe. I've been going out now with my first proper girlfriend for 6 months (I'm 25). Its been going pretty well, I can act natural around her, she really likes me and for the most part theres little *****y behavior. She certainly suits me in terms of values, as in she's...

Its not as afc as t sounds (at least I hope not) Usually at the weekend, I just relax and don't do a whole lot (unless i plan a trip somewhere). I do some activities during the week, yoga, go to the gym, will be playing soccer soon as well. So I meet my gf once during the week and thats...

Engineers are a unique case when it comes to women. No other college course produces so many socially deficient guys :) If you think about it, two equally nerdy guys can enter college and do say computer engineering and commerce. The commerce guy's social group is likely to mainly consist of...

So which works better for people here? The whole phone number -> first date timeframe, most people roughly agree on. Second date onwards, what do people here do. I tend to follow the rule of seeing the girl only once a week but lately am questioning that. Not saying it doesn't work just that...

Its funny, the better I get with my game, the more afcish things and activites I tend to do! These days I'm less worried about what the girl will think of me. I went out with this Thai chick (HB7) off hotornot last wednesday. We went for coffee (which I paid for) Convo was ok but a bit tough...

In general, I tend to organize all my dates during the week. However, I'm now wondering if thats a mistake on my part. Friday night and Saturday night in my book were for hanging out with friends. I still believe a first date should be on a week night. However for subsequent dates, a week night...