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    The Feeling of Disconnect Between Current You and Ideal You

    It has been a while since I’ve been back on these boards. Long time has passed. I came to some conclusions lately and I wanted to come back and share some of my insight. Give back to the people that helped me when I was searching for myself. I have always felt a disconnect between who I was...
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    Meeting/Overcoming Resistance

    I am noticing that I keep hitting a lot of resistance from others. Both people I know who are close to me and people I do not. I am noticing that since I started to go after what I really truly want and not walking over anyone, not overtly stating what I am doing but just doing and going for...
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    Been with my g/f for 1.5 years. We live together. All is good. She is great. I’m 29 and she is 26. Situtation: I have friends who are girls that my g/f doesn’t like me having. I have known these 2 friends for 2.5 years. I’ve been friends with them way before I got together with my g/f...
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    Liberating Feeling

    Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are. Where you are in control...
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    30+ day Challenge / Boot Camp. Ends Dec 31, 07

    Yo peeps, I'm going to present something interesting. A challenge/boot camp if you will. I present you with 30 day + challenge. It starts now or anytime you post from and till December 31, 2007. List only 5 things you want to have, habits to acquire, goals to achieve. Its simple...
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    Does she bring up other guys names in your good/healthy relationship? Thoughts on why

    When your woman in good/great relationships with you brings up names and random guys she knows or met through out conversation with you and not on just one occasion but through out the week or day. Why do they do that? Is it because they unknowingly testing you? Do they know they are doing it...
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    Work/Job/Career Question

    Some input, My dillemma is I am a student and pretty much live on student loans at the moment. Loans pay for rent/food/utilities. Summer time is work time, there is no school, so there is opportunity to save money for following school year. I am currently working as a freelance web designer...
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    Constant inner reassurancen and need of attention problem...

    I am finding myself in need of reassurance from my girlfriend. I never voice this to her but I find myself feeling down on myself and trying to have that constant need for her assurance in our relationship. I start to neat pick little things like how she holds my hand and if she texts me that...
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    Girl situation, need feedback and comments :)

    So some of you may know me and read some of my stuff but here I am with a question and situation. Last 6 months or so I've been out and about getting laid, having fun and staying away from anything that involved commitment. I've met a few girls in the course of that, that I could consider for...
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    So help, :) over here

    So some of you may know me and read some of my stuff but here I am with a question and situation. Last 6 months or so I've been out and about getting laid, having fun and staying away from anything that involved commitment. I've met a few girls in the course of that, that I could consider for...
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    Tips on Approaching From My Own Experience

    Its coming up where I have been on these forums for about a year. I only have started to live and apply principles from here since March of 2006. I am still fresh/green/newby. :) So I have decided to share what I have learned so far in approaching. In mid August I saved up over $1000 and...
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    Lame articles online from other sites...

    In the last week I've seen and read about 3 articles on MSN.com about how to tell if the man is ready to settle down or if the man is marriage material and such. Obviously written to women and read by men. "Bad sign #1: He lives with three other guys in an apartment filled with milk crates...
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    Advice on dating older women...

    Well kind of date. Here is the setup: Went to engagement party. One women was quiet taken by me, she was for a little while but this is the first time I spend time talking to her. Everything went great. She is a touch person = good sign. 2 hours later I walked her to her car, Me:"I...
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    How do you casually date?

    I don't want a relationship. I want to date and spin plates. At what point and how do you tell a girl you taking out to coffee, lunch, date etc that. When? As soon as possible? When the conversation comes up? How do you tell her? How often do you see them? etc I'm lost on this subject.
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    Bourne's Journal of Approaches and Life - need feedback

    Bourne’s Life Please give me any tips and feedback. Name: Bourne Age: 26 About: At age of 19, got laid for the first time and with this same girl ended up having 5 year relationship. Almost married to her, lived with her for 3.5 years until out of the blue she dumped me for “grass is...
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    Question on 3-second rule and approaching...

    I understand to use 3 second rule to get rid of fear of approaching and NOT to talk yourself out of it. I also read that you should not approach when the women has not given you a signal to do so. So in 3 second rule, do you see a girl and approach regardless if she saw you or not? Do...
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    Need your guys opinion.... on ex-g/f

    Hello guys. Please go to this link and help me with your opinions. I posted this on Mature forums and I really need your help assessing the situation about my ex-gf who I broke up with. I don't mean to spam and please don't delete or lock this. I just really need all the opinions and...
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    I broke up with my 1 year g/f and need help assessing the situation and getting over

    Age: 26 Past Relationships: one of 5 years, almost married. She dumped me for grass is greener on the other side Current: 1.3 years, I ended. Question and Advice about the current ex relationship I’ve been with this girl for over a year. She is 21. Its been rocky and tough for most of it...
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    Tough Question by a g/f

    This is tough. I'm 26, she is 20. I was in 6 year relationship to point of almost marriage. Current g/f and I been together year and half. She askes me where do you see us in 5 years? Goddamnit. Tough question. I honestly do not see us together longer then that. I hate to break her heart...
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    Riding drunk?

    If you are riding in passanger with your friend who is drunk and you get pulled over and he gets a DUI, will you suffer any consequences yourself in terms of jail, fine, etc even though you were not driving?
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