"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well kind of date.

Here is the setup:
Went to engagement party. One women was quiet taken by me, she was for a little while but this is the first time I spend time talking to her.

Everything went great. She is a touch person = good sign.

2 hours later I walked her to her car,

Me:"I had alot of fun, I want to see you again. Let me get your number"

She started to write her number down.

Me:"Are you free on saturdays and sundays?"
Her:"I'm a busy women, I like to keep busy. Keeps me out of my head."
Me:"I know what you mean, I'm similar"
Her:"Yeah? I like to play, I play alot, are you down to play."
Me:"I love to play"
Her:"bye"
Me:"bye"

What? Play = sex. I take it. Now how do I make that transition. I don't have any experience in doing that. Do I take her somewhere for a couple of drinks? Then go from there? What do I do and how do I take those next steps to her bed? When do I call? When do I set soemthing up? and How do I escalate?

I'm 26, she is in her late 30s or so.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is how I see things.

I am busy, very busy = I don't want a relationship.
Are you down to play = want to fvck?

If you want to fvck, you are in business. Just suggest a get to gether at her house or yours (if you can cook). :up:
 
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My instincts telling me to call her up in the afternoon tmrw, and say I am going to a local lounge later that night and I want her to come. Pick her up, go out and get couple of drinks. And the rest is history or so to speak.

My house is out of the question. Its hers or car or great outdoors.
 
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Bourne said:
My instincts telling me to call her up in the afternoon tmrw, and say I am going to a local lounge later that night and I want her to come. Pick her up, go out and get couple of drinks. And the rest is history or so to speak.

My house is out of the question. Its hers or car or great outdoors.
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Find out where she lives. Then you find a bar close by, this way she will suggest to go to her place afterwards.
 
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This advice was given to me on another forum, I am going to take it. I don't have any experience in this and this guy had plenty. What do you guys think.

"You could have had sex after that conversation. Now that you haven't, wait until next wednesday and call her: "Hey this is Bourne, you free to play on Friday night? I'll pick you up for some drinks" If she says she is busy, tell her she has your number and she can call you when she is free. Older women don't like BS. Hit her hard or leave the ball in her court and leave. trust me, I have a lot of experience in this."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ask if she knows how to play foosball... make the 'ball' shoot with the snap of her wrist...

Or basketball... if she likes 'finger rolls', or comment that you like to bang the balls on the backboard... even if she's heard of the game 'around the world'...

Or volleyball... you like to spike the ball over the net to her side... and score.


The innuendo could lead to some good things...
 
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