Search results

You can almost count on it. Remember 99.99% of the world is afc and most would be high-fiving there afc pals and responding back with a 10,000 word response and a "oh! More than happy to help you out, let me know if you want to get together" :cheer: Whereas when you don't respond that's a...

Damn, that was a really good piece of work. TC

So instead of listening to the AFCs fling crap back and forth at each other about who did what and why, here's my advice Slick. A one word response I think is a bad idea. I'd rather be no-contact and haunt her for the rest of her f'n life (if thats what you want). The deal with a single...

I agree with what most folks have said here. Move on, get over it, etc.. etc.. It's not always easy, but your supposed to be a man, bite the bullet and realize that there are lots of other women in the world most likely that will treat you a lot better. Better to ride off with some dignity...

This works well in a lot of situations. I've used it a few times in my current LTR - basically go scarce when she's acting disrespectful, distant, etc.. After a few days the ship turns around quickly. I will say though that a lot of it is getting the timing right. You have to know when too...

So, prior to these 3 times you never had a problem? If that's the case then you're thinking about it too much, rather than just going for it. I find even for myself I have to remind myself sometimes to just relax, breath, and make sure I'm losening the muscles in my body. You could also...

The world we know ends every time the second hand ticks. TC

hahahha... You should read the Gangi thread in the tips section. One of the final posts talks about how you need to give the impression you have moved on. The irony is, in many cases, when you finally have somehow "they know" and that's when they contact you. TC

it's not what I think - google "crimes of passion" and "temporary insanity" -there's enough precedence that in many cases it gets plea bargained to manslaughter and minimal time served. I was using "justifiable homicide" loosely. TC

Sounds line you are apathetic about it. Your search for effort is really a fear of rejection that is so strong that you are feeling the rejection before the game even starts. You need to get out of your head, do things that put you in a positive mood and learn to believe in yourself. Realize...

Don't double post: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171998

Ok, a few things: * Don't sh!t where you eat :nono: - that is, you shouldn't be attempting a workplace hook-up, that's a bad thing, it is volatile if things don't work out, you could loose your job, and a woman has a huge advantage to sue your a$$ * Married women have a tendency to flirt from...

iceberg, you and I are on the exact same page. It's a relationship based on mutual respect for the individual. TC

The advice I gave above is based on working it for your frame, which is a "be in control" frame. Myself, I think this will backfire for you in the long run, and you'll wind up with a woman that's way too placating and albeit boring to you in the long run. I think you have to ask yourself if...

From what you say above it sounds like you are NOT in control, she is, otherwise she wouldn't still be doing it. And, as the great George Castanza once realized; sometimes you have to alter your own self and be the anti-George to get the result you want. The problem I see from your brief...

Well definitely a vaccuum cleaner is nice that you can unplug if it gets too whiney....as well as replace the old bag without people giving you crap about it. TC

Yea I agree - asking out for dinner is way to serious in this day and age. I would have gone for the coffee or am grabbing drinks somewhere type of move - the casual approach seems to always work for me. Dinner gets her prediction "what if" engine running... That rarely works n your favor. TC

A) Use paragraphs when you post, makes it a lot easier to read. B) So you're not talking at all?? I'm inferring from your message that you've actually had a conversation with her? C) What are you doing now that's different? How are you going on with your life? What cool stuff are you...

maybe you should go for women instead?? Seriously, it's a lube problem or a skills problem - as they say, less about the size more about how it's used. You could be hitting them in the back of the uterus, which I have had two gfs in the past mention. Something about a tilted uterus or...

Well. for me it became the defining moment where I had the epiphany about being a man or being a wuss. All those things you say are projections of your own self value. Am not going to dive down into psych 101, but you'd be suprised what you say about others reflects on your own self image...