She does with you the same thing that she may do to you one day. People tend to forget that - and drama followsSlickster said:when a chick cheats on you she instantly becomes a "cheating b!tch" who isn't worthy of your time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She does with you the same thing that she may do to you one day. People tend to forget that - and drama followsSlickster said:when a chick cheats on you she instantly becomes a "cheating b!tch" who isn't worthy of your time.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Not sure I understand you????AMDG said:She does with you the same thing that she may do to you one day. People tend to forget that - and drama follows![]()
I'm not understanding this, carrying what around your whole life? I personally dont give a sh!t about her husband, I have zero "guilt" or whatever you guys have, why should I ? .TheCzar said:Just ain't worth carrying around your whole life.
TC
Once a cheater always a cheater - that is the short version.Slickster said:Not sure I understand you????
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
( . )( . ) said:I'm not understanding this, carrying what around your whole life? I personally dont give a sh!t about her husband, I have zero "guilt" or whatever you guys have, why should I ? .
Seriously just explain it, what am I missing?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have a gorgeous married client who I have known for a few years. Last christmas for business I took a box of chocolates to all my clients including her. She was not available and so I left them at her front desk. I got in my car to leave and she ran down the stairs ot to the car park to thank me.Powerlifter said:I have recently met a physcial therapy at the nursing home where my mother is staying. She is married with 2 boys and a girl and very attractive sorta looks like Jennifer Aniston just a sexy looking lady.
When we were introduced by the admissions officer of the nursing home she introduced her as one of the physcial therpist there and I comedically said at the time I feel I need physcial therapy. Before she left she smiled and said it was nice meeting me and I said the same.
I didn't realize this would be the same lady who would be giving my Mom physcial therpy and as time has gone on I took note that one time her husband called her while I was in the therpy room and she slammed the phone down in which one of her co-workers remarked wow! whats going on and another co-worker said she married thats what and then the one I like says no you just married the right one.
During this exchanges I noticed her eye contact was strong at me and she even walked away and started messing with her hair putting it up exposing her neck after this she was talking and saying to her co-workers she will be 40 this summer and she won't be there working and she will be on a beach somewhere in a bikini.
Long story short this lady has given me strong eye contact plus the most wide and teeth showing beautiful smile I have ever experieced with a woman. I also noticed one time she pulled her car up next to my truck as when I parked it she was in the parking space up front to the left of me and when I came out it was next to mine driver side facing mine at the time I didn't know this was her car until later and I was sensing a hint of something she was trying to say without saying it.
Off and on now for 6 weeks now her smile is always warm and feel there is something there but I stop myself because she is married. I also asked the admissions officer about her and she said she was happyly married but the signs this lady gives says she is ready for adventure and I am willing to give it but really don't know how to get started.
She still wears her wedding band but I notice she use to wear two rings now it's on the one not sure what that means.
Any suggestions on where to go from here as my Mom will be going home in a couple weeks and won't be seeing her I am 50 in great shape single with no kids of my own and would really like to see where this can go also forgive my grammer and spelling.
So far I have not given her any compliments but have talked with her about Moms progress and have not really dug deeper in what makes her tick.
Thanks for any suggestions.
Powerlifter