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    Female friends are useless...i dont know why i bother!

    No not all women are. It's on occassion I suppose. If I say something about me, one might go 'oooooh' (crappy reply aint it?). There are people out there who are lousy listeners - both men and women. I guess the girls I know tend to have a little bigger than usual ego; at times it appears like...
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    Female friends are useless...i dont know why i bother!

    you're right, they arent. I guess you can classify them more as acquantances - and they probably would do the same. I could go months on end without talking to either one. Honestly we were very close friends when we met (both girls), and it was my fault the friendship dwindled because I didnt...
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    Female friends are useless...i dont know why i bother!

    That would be a viable option, but I dont think they'd do that. They arent very socially outgoing girls...as they arent quite fond of meeting new people. They themselves dont have much friends - and at one point both of them liked me (or still might i dont know). One of them kind of freaks...
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    Female friends are useless...i dont know why i bother!

    Personally I'm a people person, I like involving people in activities or I help where I can...and I do like being a leader and maintaining connections. Female friends may be good for social proof, but for the most part they are utterly useless. They are too unreliable. I've known this friend...
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    Is it common for a girl to stay in a relationship after being cheated on?

    While I agree thats probably the #1 reason in most cases, a lot of girls are far too deep into their comfort zone for that very reason. And perhaps some guys too... Goes to show that a lot of people are in relationships because they settle for the person.
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    Is it common for a girl to stay in a relationship after being cheated on?

    Personally, I've never done this to a girl. but I hear this from other people in relationships and seemingly it appears common for the girl to stay in the relationship after being cheated on.
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    Does a girl's ethnicity influence success rate at cold approaches?

    So twice I tried cold approaches on 2 asian girls, ironically they are both from the train. I get the signals : constant glances, playing with hair, fidgety hand motions, walking slowly in front of me (or I could be mistaken and they're just attention *****s). The instant I approach, they...
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    Have great chemistry with a girl, I find out she has bf...wtf! what now?

    Truth be told, i know her group...and there are a few of them Im cool with. I'm 22, but honestly I get along better with people older than me and not with kids who behave..well like kids. I wouldnt say the classmates are really her friends, but the other night we all went barhopping i think she...
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    First true cold approach, critique!

    Anyway I was in the train with my dad, I look to my left and i notice this blondie asian girl standing by the train door. Based off the reflection on the opposite door windows, I saw her glancing over several times...and well I was checkin her out with the window also. Just as the train nears...
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    Have great chemistry with a girl, I find out she has bf...wtf! what now?

    =/ yea i know its irrelevant, in our 'moment' last night i wouldve even leaned in for a kiss but the group came back. My gut tells me she wants to be with me, she was very fascinated with me and vice versa the other night. Yea that usually is a tough one. But my philosophy on people with...
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    Have great chemistry with a girl, I find out she has bf...wtf! what now?

    I was out with some mates and a couple of girls celebrating our graduation at a couple of bars...they're all from the Uni. The thing is, there was this particular girl also in my field that i've never met before. Apparently the first bar we went to, as I was having a good time, she asked my...
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    This girl likes me but I wouldnt mind being friends, advice?

    Thanks, you seem to understand the dilemna here. I've had similar pitfalls with women in the past whom I tried being just friends with. But looking at it either way, they'll end up hating me regardless (or want nothing to do with me). Quite frankly I've never been successful at being friends...
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    This girl likes me but I wouldnt mind being friends, advice?

    Basically there's this girl from one of my classes, im certain she likes me. One time she asked for my number and the following night she even called to see how i was doing. Yesterday she even mentioned something about watching spider man. We're on good terms, and im cool with one of her...
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    Useless friend(s)...thinking about ditching them.

    Usually Im ok with my friends talking smack that they cant/wont live up to (as they do it quite often)...now its just fcked up. Since last semester me and my friend agreed on getting an apartment and being roomies this summer. Since its been nearing the summer, I've come across some...
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    Is having a car that big of a deal?

    Im from NYC, honestly having a car is not essential. but having to take your date home in a train or walk her home is a little lame. Having a car can become a nuisance, anyone that knows you will bug you to be the "driver" for their social needs...which of course could improve your social...
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    Is having a car that big of a deal?

    I forgot to mention that Ill be moving into a new apartment next month. It will be difficult to be financially secure and try to maintain both at once - with my financial status I can only have 1 and not the other.
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    Is having a car that big of a deal?

    I live in the city, so do my friends...so there's not much need of having a car. A mutual friend of me and my friend got his license not too long ago. On certain days he gets the car to himself (his dad's car). Frankly I have nothing in common with the mutual friend other than knowing him...
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    Do you go after girls that you arent interested in, but make themselves available?

    What they say is true, its easier for an older guy to get a younger girl... Yesterday I was at the poolhall with some friends. Outside were these 2 girls that walked pass, they were average looking and probably 16-17. Yea I was checking them out or at least seeing if they were hot or not...
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    Do people who are attracted/hung up over someone generally avoid them more?

    matrix..right..fortunately its just fictional. It's easier for a guy to escape the friends zone than a girl. Once a guy feels the girl isnt phsyically attractive, there's little she can do to improve that department. A guy on the other hand can improve his game, dress better, be less...
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    Do people who are attracted/hung up over someone generally avoid them more?

    Based on your responses it doesnt sound like you have much expreince with women. I take it you dont know what happens when you LJBF a girl, and then out of the blue they avoid you. Or what happens after a break up and both play the game because they dont want to admit they want each other back...
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