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  1. reality250

    What to be aware of an open marriage with kid?

    Hey guys. I am on an open marriage now, where the wife (I know she has way more options) was cheated on by myself and then she cheated. I would like to bring women home, but she does not want that, but i will and have to. I will not bang her anymore, since she is an extremely aggressive liar...
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    I encouraged my wife to an open relationship, but expected, as we discussed, she will be telling me everything afterwards.. and so can I continue game.,. It did happen, my wife had a crush on the guy, and she did not tell me of course. Instead she acted like an affair and felt in love with the...
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    Things got a bit out of control, and now I have to decide...?

    My wife and I choose an open relationship, so I can be with other women. I strongly got the idea from cuckolding, since I also want her to feel good. Otherwise, I would be guilty, so I encouraged her. She (40) slept with a 58-year-old man, who came on in her mouth after sex, she told me he...
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    What is going on here?

    A married father (M34) here. My wife agreed to an open relationship, and my best friend got divorced with a kid. This question is all about my best friend, who is a female and has been very close to me and my family for 6 months now. I recently told her I had a crush when I was a teenager. When...
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    If you lose your ability to catch fish, your woman will seek another fisherman`?

    Me 33-year-old man with a business background and a wife, also a professional nerd, discussed my interest in Pickup and open relationships with my wife and a divorced best friend (W35, my best friend from high school). I suggested that as long as he is game for sex and not a relationship, I...
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    Me, my highschool best friend & my GF, how can we proceed surely and very slowly ...?

    We got a live one. Forewarning, I posted here. So that means I accept the terms of me absolutely tearing down my entire outlook on life. Last week, I (M33) went shopping with our divorced (best)friend (34F), who had previously been friends. We had a few flirtatious moments together, including...
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    How can I keep this lifestyle simple, how do people game in open relationships?

    In the next months, I will be going out, to improve my communication skills and also to live a bit outside my open relationship... we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun. The main problem is, that I almost have NO sexual desires and can't follow up with the...
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    How to escalate beside an open relationship, or do I think too much?

    My age 33 Her age : 33 I will meet her tomorrow for the first time, and she started asking everything about me, how old my kid is etc I did not tell her I am in an open relationship but she did only asked does your kid live with you, I answered yes. ? Idk. She asks me about everything in my...
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    How would you talk about your GF/wife with other Sets when you come closer?

    At the end of this month, my GF will be outside of country for 2 weeks, we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun. But I always have the feeling I have to hide the fact that I have a kid with her, how to communicate frame that it is all about having fun and...
  10. reality250

    I will meet her again, could not sexualize

    I met her 2 years ago we were sitting in a park walking (4 hours) and at the end she told me that she has to go work, but before that she will do some grocery shopping. I knew and felt that I had to take the step, but I could not, because I never did. Do you have any advice what I do until...
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    Self awareness, self reflection.

    Hi there, Since I am married with one kid and still want to improve and praxis my GAME & SOCIAL skills, I was thinking about myself and situation, and reflecting my life. For my this is being aware about my self. That is to say that there is no agenda, only fun and connecting. There is...
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    How can you focus on improving your game if you work 10 hours / day and have an LTR?

    HI folks, Like the title says, I am wondering how you guys take time to improve your social skills even you have a girlfriend since the game is on. For long term dedicated gamers here, I think it's huge to still go out and work on your social gatherings and working on your game. This year...
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    How can I be more physical from the beginning ?

    The last dates and instant dates I could not kiss neither I could hug her or put my arm on her shoulder. I was raised up very Islamic and I guess I have the belief systems about sex. But even the kiss close even I get the signs I cant just do this. And what are Anime Eyes? Does that mean...
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    Should I ever tell her about my kid and my Open Releationship?

    Hey guys, I will meet a 22-year-old one and I thought before we meet each other and I start building deep comfort (telling about myselft etc) should I be completely authentic and tell her about my life partner or not? What were your experiences?
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    You cannot negotiate Desire. I told her, whatever her response to my desire was, I do what I have to do.

    Dear folks, I love the energy and the helpfulness in this forum :) Very quick information about my marriage: Duration: 10 years, one kid. My wife is considered as my LIFEPARTNER, because we have good chemistry also have sex every day. The reason why we are still married is my son and the...
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    My way Austria (Vienna) to be a superior man..

    Briefly about me: am 32 (Kurdish descent and hardcase) and have a child. Game since 2019, since summer 2022 really on. For about a month I was out with a few WIngs from a Vienna WhatsApp group (Maverick) with a few... the experience showed me, however, that it is better to go out alone. To be...
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    Will RSD Juliens Transformational Mastery Releases help me to let go ?

    Should I let go my insecurity, because today i walked with a set I opened to Mc Donalds and then back to the metro station and I only got her IG and hugged her. I want to do more.. it's very very hard for me... I think I will let go the feeling of insecure and my anxiety.. also i will move...
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    Open relationship since we have a kid together, but should I tell this to others?

    Hi there, I really have a kid who will turn 7 very soon, and my partner, who will turn 39 very soon, agreed for me to game and build up my social skills. But we agreed I also have sex with her, and will spend 70% with her & my kid. She also does not want me to pull at home when she is there...
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    What to post on IG for being the king ?

    Hello folks, i 2018-2020 I heard how important Instagram nowadays is, I always do IG Close instead of Numberclose. Btw this is my profile: instagram.com/tandigital/ I am posting all about my daily life, and would appreciate every feedback to get more people looking at my stories since this is...
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    MY DATE AFTER 4 OTHER DATES, WHY DO I NEVER DARE THE STEP TO KISS AND PULL?

    1. my age 32 2. age of the woman 32 3. number of dates that have already taken place : 4, with 4 different HB's 4. stage of seduction get to know phase 5. description of the problem: I met her last week at the weekend, short small talk that she is looking for a drug, it was a techno night in...
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