reality250
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 27, 2022
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- Age
- 35
Me 33-year-old man with a business background and a wife, also a professional nerd, discussed my interest in Pickup and open relationships with my wife and a divorced best friend (W35, my best friend from high school).
I suggested that as long as he is game for sex and not a relationship, I am not a cheater. However, I cannot find time to practice my skills and my wife does not want to hear about it.
I suggested group sex with couples or inviting a "bull" to **** her from the internet, but she did not want this. Recently, my wife told me that she likes the idea of an open relationship... I want to be just myself and not hide or shame in front of my practicing game and developing my social skills.
MY best friend and wife went out to bars with each other but she stopped because she is not on the pill and invests too much in people since she is 40 and has insecurities. And I also developed some feelings for my best friend (it happened automatic)
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Last week my Wife told me on the phone that she also likes the idea of the open relationship because I plated the seeds in her mind. And I encouraged her, she then told me to hang up so she can eat (I did not liked that she changed her mood being disrespectful to be honest because I am always nice no matter what)
then after work I told her to go for a coffee alone or just go shopping with my best friend, so I can take care of my son. She agreed and was not even listening to me on the phone, and was kind of excited and not present in the moment, I hung up then.
Normally things like this, she would never accept, if I would react like that but I just was normal if she does... Then after 30 mins, I called her. (normally we have calls everyday) and she did not hang up-. Then she wrote me that her battery is dying soon--
After 4 hours I did not heard back I wrote her when she will come home, and that I am eating with my son. She relied after 35 mins that she will come in 2-3 hours.
I replied okay... and also got excited.. after that she send me photo of her with a another friend.
I know that met with a guy. and asked her then afterwards not direct, and it took me about 30 lies before since she did not want to tell, but I was sooo curious... .. she told me nothing happened and they just were holding hands and kissed each other, thats it. I said okay and asked her if we will tell my best friend. She said, yeah why not.
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My question, since, I am not sure anymore what my relationship is going to the right direction...Am I overthinking this tooo much? Should I stop gaming other girls, which I rarely do, since I have to work keep the family safe, paying bills etc..
Am I developing to be a cuck? since it slowly begins to being normal for me to let her date with other guys?
She told me that she does not want this, but I wanted that so much. But she does play it with very well. much better than me.
Since I am in a marriage and get regular sex. That drive to achieve more is subdued. I also have to work harder in game. ... and now I am supporting with much effort & energy & time so my wife can have her pleasure with other guyS???
Thank you all for reading.
I suggested that as long as he is game for sex and not a relationship, I am not a cheater. However, I cannot find time to practice my skills and my wife does not want to hear about it.
I suggested group sex with couples or inviting a "bull" to **** her from the internet, but she did not want this. Recently, my wife told me that she likes the idea of an open relationship... I want to be just myself and not hide or shame in front of my practicing game and developing my social skills.
MY best friend and wife went out to bars with each other but she stopped because she is not on the pill and invests too much in people since she is 40 and has insecurities. And I also developed some feelings for my best friend (it happened automatic)
--
Last week my Wife told me on the phone that she also likes the idea of the open relationship because I plated the seeds in her mind. And I encouraged her, she then told me to hang up so she can eat (I did not liked that she changed her mood being disrespectful to be honest because I am always nice no matter what)
then after work I told her to go for a coffee alone or just go shopping with my best friend, so I can take care of my son. She agreed and was not even listening to me on the phone, and was kind of excited and not present in the moment, I hung up then.
Normally things like this, she would never accept, if I would react like that but I just was normal if she does... Then after 30 mins, I called her. (normally we have calls everyday) and she did not hang up-. Then she wrote me that her battery is dying soon--
After 4 hours I did not heard back I wrote her when she will come home, and that I am eating with my son. She relied after 35 mins that she will come in 2-3 hours.
I replied okay... and also got excited.. after that she send me photo of her with a another friend.
I know that met with a guy. and asked her then afterwards not direct, and it took me about 30 lies before since she did not want to tell, but I was sooo curious... .. she told me nothing happened and they just were holding hands and kissed each other, thats it. I said okay and asked her if we will tell my best friend. She said, yeah why not.
----
My question, since, I am not sure anymore what my relationship is going to the right direction...Am I overthinking this tooo much? Should I stop gaming other girls, which I rarely do, since I have to work keep the family safe, paying bills etc..
Am I developing to be a cuck? since it slowly begins to being normal for me to let her date with other guys?
She told me that she does not want this, but I wanted that so much. But she does play it with very well. much better than me.
Since I am in a marriage and get regular sex. That drive to achieve more is subdued. I also have to work harder in game. ... and now I am supporting with much effort & energy & time so my wife can have her pleasure with other guyS???
Thank you all for reading.
