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Latin girls dress quite differently in South America... more slutty looking... what they call "fashion." Once I was driving in Puerto Rico and I saw a sexily dressed prostitute standing on the corner and I looked at her again and then I realized she was just an office worker waiting for the bus...

Fall seven times, stand up eight - Japanese Proverb In Japanese, a seven is similar to the symbol for defeat. ... and don't whine about it. In this video the ball player Dwyane Wade is black... I've always been impressed that when a little black 3-year-old kid falls, he doesn't cry for mommy...

If I was interested in the venue, I think I would automatically just immediately switch to this mode. "Oh, you don't want to accept my invitation, then you can introduce me to your girlfriends." An intro will get you some creds with her friends and who knows you might hit it off with one of them.

This is a true story: my GF's best friend introduced me to her new beau and we talked a little and I thought he was a very cool guy. Later she turned to my GF and I overheard her say, "this is our third date and I like him but there must be something wrong with him because he hasn't made a pass...

I saw this blog link on a female friend's Facebook posting, where she and all her friends thought it was just sooo romantic. I actually was surprised that none of her (more realistic / experienced / divorced) girls replied that they wanted to puke. They were all, oh, what a great guy!

Bobby called up his parents and sisters to let them know the good news and we headed back to our house so that I could make my 4:00 nail appointment. That's right. Bobby had scheduled me to get my nails done so that they would look pretty in pictures with the ring and when I show the ring off to...

A little understanding of the situation would help you become more objective, above it. Don't be petty. If you feel a situation has to be "put up with," then it isn't for you. A woman's friends think they are looking out for her best interests, but often they are projecting their own misery...

I called the cops on a neighbor and they came back and told me the guy worked as a ramp agent at the airport and had significant hearing loss, so they told him to get a set of headphones for the TV. After their report back to me, I had a little more compassion for the neighbor. I'm guessing 90%...

I think the lady aged much better than the guy. She held up pretty well right up until the last photo.

This reminds me of Dave from Hawaii. "What you need to focus on, WHATEVER you do, is to maintain frame. Don’t put her on the pedestal. Adopt the mentality that you are atop her pedestal, and act accordingly." "Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a...

Think of this as a practice session. Dial down your expectations, and dial up your game.

You lose: Never call to confirm a date. Never make plans more than a day in advance. If she doesn't know how to work a calendar, how is she ever going to know how to work you?

Girls are almost always in groups. Roissy had a good idea in this post: http://www.the-spearhead.com/2009/10/02/friday-night-game/

I've been monitoring this forum, and don't really see much in it, about techniques for "good frame control" in a LTR, or as Doc Love puts it, "being a challenge." I guess the secret to a successful marriage is that you don't have techniques, like you would as a PU artist, but you have successful...

I think the problem is that 100% of all women will have at least one Cluster B symptom. They can be overly-dramatic, emotional, erratic, unstable, and excessively verbal.

Heretolearn, you aren't really in a position to do anything about their relationship: he may resent you for your advice, or she may resent you for your advice, either way it is lose-lose. Keep you mouth shut. The best thing you can do is get him away from the house, give him a friendly ear...

Something nobody mentioned is the flip side of the equation: many women are looking to see if you make a pass at them early in the process. If you wait until the third date to proposition her, she's gonna think you are a pantywaist.

Rollo, how do you maintain this posture in a LTR?

Exactly. The odd thing is, the advice is the same either way. Ironically, the only way to SAVE a relationship is to cold turkey go live your own life, become unaffected. Being unavailable is not disrespectful to her, women find this behavior alluring.

Be a challenge The underlying principle is "be a challenge," but it is difficult to know how that translates without specific examples. Your last referenced post (#3) comes closest to the kind of advice I need in this way. For example, the garbage. Very practical advice. Most of the...