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    What is a civvy?

    I posted this question as a reply in the escorts vs. civvies thread but I think it got overlooked since there are so many replies. I have never heard the term civvy before and googling hasn’t helped.
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    Nashville?

    Anyone in Nashville, e
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    Suggestions for asking out the singer.

    I want to ask out this drop dead gorgeous musician next time I go to a gig of hers. For reference, I saw her just over a week ago and that was the first time I saw her in 7 years. Obviously, if I am given a negative response I should not resume to go see her (you know, have to be willing to walk...
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    Looking back to high school

    It was only in the past decade or so that I first learned the notion of women wanting what they can’t have, and that was after I had been out of high school for a decade. In the last few weeks it dawned on me as I looked back to my middle/high school days that I had my share of girls hitting on...
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    Anyone tried zoom/virtual dating?

    I apologize if this is in the wrong forum. Has anyone tried zoom dating during these times of pandemic? If so I would like to know about your experience.
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    Girl gives guy number through bartender

    So last night I was at my favorite bar talking with some friends, including the bartender (female). The bartender walks up to one of the friends and tells him that this girl who just left said that he was attractive and asked her to give him her number. She handed him her number on a napkin. Of...
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    Approaching a group of women.

    It is not uncommon to see a groom of good looking women in a bar together. On the one hand there is a good possibility one may be single. On the other, wouldn’t they sense that when a guy approaches that is exactly what he is after? Am I overthinking this?
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    Am I fit here.

    It seems that most of this forum ‘s users are politically conservative. I myself am a progressive like. Bernie Sanders. Of course Trump has a womanizing reputation but it seems many of you are also with him on fiscal policy. Ironically I think most of us would disagree with conservatives on...
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    Is this a sign of attraction?

    So this lady I am volunteering with-the coordinator-tells me I’m doing an awesome job, is extra nice to me and invited me to a party which I could not make. I know that doesn’t necessarily mean anything but when she was talking to me just before she left—she was wearing a shirt with buttons...
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    Bartender compliments my eyes

    As I write this I am in my favorite bar. A bartender who I have been acquainted with for a couple months said; Bartender: you have very blue eyes. Me: I know Her: I like em Me: thank you Her: I wish I had blue eyes, Me; you should be proud of what you have. Her: my mom has Blue eyes. She is...
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    New Times, New Plates.

    I just got promoted at work to a position more related to a career goal. I also found a more decent place to live for the same cost. And I have my 20 year high school reunion coming up. Here are my current plates: 1. A coworker who I talked about in a previous thread. (See Just asked coworker...
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    Plates

    So I often come across terms on this board that I am not familiar with. From context clues I am guessing a plate is a girl? Am I missing anything?
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    Something to think about

    This is not a situation that I am in but I am throwing it out for thought as it could happen to any of us. This site is all about helping us score the hottest women. Suppose you land a perfect 10, get steady and have sex regularly. Maybe you get married maybe you don't. Then she gets in a car...
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    When action dates are not an option

    I have read in Pook about how action dates work better than non-action dates. Well I have an impending lunch date because I could not think of anything else. Any advice on making a lunch date fun or perhaps how to transition it to an action date?
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    Just asked coworker to lunch.

    I know many of you don’t think it’s a good idea to date coworkers but you don’t count in this one. I work in a warehouse house and am well liked by everyone. Most people know my name even though I don’t know everyone’s name. This girl who has been working here for about a year. The first thing...
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    So What is the dream?

    So I red Pook's chapter on Dreams first, chicks second. So what is my dream. Here is my reflection. As naïve 18 year old, my "vison" was I will get an education have a successful career and then get a mater to have sex with. To me, the girl was the dream and the career and everthing was just to...
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    What to make of this.

    The person I consider my best friend is a female bartender and the bar that is my main hangout. A 10 in my book but she has a boyfriend and I respect that. On one occasion I was 2 feet away from her and she was conversing with another bartender. She said "My boyfriend's best friend, he comes...
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    About old Maids

    I just finished reading the Pook chapter "Attention *****s" . It brings up the notion that men dream of highest respect and women dream on their wedding day. I immediately thought of the teachers I had who were old maids. Now my younger self who did not trust anyone over 30 figured, they are not...
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    Feedback Please

    Well here is what happened. I went to my typical hangout bar to watch the Kentucky Derby. I am a big fan of Horse racing and of Bob Baffert so I am excited that Justify won. So I order my usual drink and watch the Derby coverage. As the place gets more populated, two girls came in and ordered...
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    You are helping me feel more positive.

    Reading your success stories on this forum make he feel better about just asking girls out or asking for their numbers point blank. Seems a lot of you have done it with success. Obviously if she says not you move on to the next girl. I think I have up until now had this notion, at least...
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