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Hello I posted last year several post on ex that broke up with me exactly 1 year ago. It was a tough time. Regardless she decided herself to break up, she bothered me a lot. She searches again and again my attention. Since 4 months I do nothing anymore. I remove her from all social media. I...

This is not the case for this last relationship. I never feared a second to lose this. I continued to do my life. But she was always in my mind. Every day, also the time we got rather a long distance. I trusted that we were wise to talk in time. But that wasn't the case. As you can read in my...

I dont really suffer oneitis. Before this last relationship I was perfectly happy with myself. I have rather an interesting live. I do have my own business. I travel when and where I want. I'm free as a bird. Can't get enough from this. I walked slowly in this relationship. I'm never in a...

Thx man, and I hope u sort things quicker than me. I do indeed focus back on me, and luckily my hobby is my work and gives me freedom too on how I want to work. This helped in the past and will do now.

Exactly. I don't want to blame myself fully of course concerning not 'succeeding' relationship. There is also some luck needed to match a good mate. But last 10y were just painful. At least I forgot to be selfish in time .... Thx for your input! Much appreciated.

Hi all I'm struggling. Longtime. Since my 17s (now 42). I wrote "(un)stable", cause it is in a specific situation I get lost. I'm especially getting in troubles in a relationship, or mostly it seems that all of my relationships were with people that start to walk over me. In short, during my...

You can say whatever your want, a break-up is 1 thing, remaining emotions are another. The down size of splitting is that communication can become very weird, you (both) will interpret messages completely different than other people ... just because your mutual emotions that often turn into...

i think indeed i'm in this roulette of her ... saw it too late a bit. also my fault to cut off too late. thx for speaking out

such a pity another person can confuse us so hard. it shouldn't be never the/your case

Oow, this is an eye opener, and seems to match my ex. She broke all her past relationships ... and never complained a lot about. Even more, she tries to stay friend with them ... the once that stay as 'friend' ... she is in control ... others disappeared. Also, the once that stay in her life ...

still struggling with the aftermath of a break-up 5 months ago. I'm just wondering how much character whether a (too) low self-esteem is playing a game in order to heal yourself. The emotions I'm experiencing are sometimes very scary ... like being anxious, like I can't drop this. It's not all...

no worry now, my backup is over :)

I have no clue of such kind of people, and I know you need to exclude them from your life, because We saw each other last Sunday. The 2 weeks before, she started texting very often and intimate again, being much more spontaneous too. I thought, and every well thinking guy, aha, ok, this is a...

That's indeed often a huge turn on on interest level. But dont start a business for this reason. That should be very stupid. Very. Do what you value yourself a lot.

Really worth to spot them!

as being in your mid 20 you are in lowest interest group for women. period. since my 35 till now (41) I never had that much interest from women. Women aged from 22 to 42 ... a lot of woman are fishing in that pool and hunting. There is a lot of competition between them. I never hunted till now.

... they keep themself contacting you where I keep the silence. What's wrong with this people they don't respect their own chosen break-up?

straight ask her as reply on fb ... (keeping a line with you, ...) or you can remove her from ur fb too. it's also a very clear reply.

you do can have a 2) ánd being 1). My ex is like this.

as she asks ... she starts to play with you. it's not her business