"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The sad realization that there are only two kinds of women...

Korrupt

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1.) Hot, but no/bad personality. A girl who you want to wife up for her looks, but that you can't imagine actually being in a relationship with. These are usually your attention hoes/bullsh!tters/flakes/etc. who are being pursued by a ton of guys.

2.) Very average/below average, but doesn't play games and is actually... Fun. A girl who you wish you were physically attracted to so you could wife her up. If you're "above" her on the looks scale she'll probably be all over you.

Some outliers might be girls who used to be really heavy (fat), but then lost a lot of weight and got into shape. Girls like this might actually have both (not all). There are also girls who are below average AND have no personality. Possibly from bad parenting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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icantgetlaid

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I agree completely with the OP.

It's so hard to find that combination of a girl who absolutely adores you/is fun to be around/really wants to make you happy ... who is also above your league looks wise.
 

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you are searching in wrong places and not going out enough
 

devilkingx2

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if a girl was perfect then why would she be single? obviously you're going to have to compromise on something lol. (i suggest compromising on looks)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrgoodstuff

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How do you think pro athletes look at "hot girls"?

They look at em like hoez, because they are all after the same thing. They don't think she looks too good or out of league.
 

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no ***** is out of my league
 

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The trick is to get the hot ones young.

If they are 18 they may not been to ****ed in the head yet.
 

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There are 4 basic types of women. How they behave fall on a quad chart between Low/High Self-Esteem and Low/High Sex Drive. Read "Practical Guide to Female Psychology for the Practical Man." All you need to know is in that book if you are confused by female behavior. The book isn't going to tell you what to do with this knowledge, you have to learn that on your own with practice.

The important thing to know is how she behaves is a function of her general type and what you do. All women are attracted to the same male characteristics, but the importance of each will change based on how you show up.
 
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