"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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people that break up with you but

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... they keep themself contacting you where I keep the silence.

What's wrong with this people they don't respect their own chosen break-up?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That's just her attempt to castrate you and keep you as an orbiter while she cries about the flavor of her new man's kum.

Open and shut case.
 

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... they keep themself contacting you where I keep the silence.

What's wrong with this people they don't respect their own chosen break-up?
Ladies are emotional creatures, so they naturally make poor decisions. They check and double check, to make sure.
Don't give them the satifaction of knowing they made the right decision. Their loss!
 

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Usually happens when you've gotten way too comfortable with a girl and often "she loves you, but is not in
love with you"

In other words, she no longer finds you attractive AND the leads that she has been working on while stringing you
along are biting and she's ready to get sweaty with them if she's not already.......

......but why would she want to give up that emotional connection with you.........she doesn't want to fvck you but why
give it all up........"lets be friends....."

Stop treating women like your best buddy or your faithful shep.......you'll get too comfortable and so will she.......
 

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Usually happens when you've gotten way too comfortable with a girl and often "she loves you, but is not in
love with you"

In other words, she no longer finds you attractive AND the leads that she has been working on while stringing you
along are biting and she's ready to get sweaty with them if she's not already.......

......but why would she want to give up that emotional connection with you.........she doesn't want to fvck you but why
give it all up........"lets be friends....."

Stop treating women like your best buddy or your faithful shep.......you'll get too comfortable and so will she.......
Yeah, she's probably a wh0re anyway, most are. No use in holding on to something worthless.

Ladies that are best buddy material, are rare... don't expect it.
 
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unless she's begging you to fvck her it doesn't mean anything good so don't fall for it OP
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Or they have now realized what they have lost.
I have no clue of such kind of people, and I know you need to exclude them from your life, because

We saw each other last Sunday. The 2 weeks before, she started texting very often and intimate again, being much more spontaneous too.
I thought, and every well thinking guy, aha, ok, this is a good direction again.

Facing each other.
She: No, I still don't want to retake. I also want to **** around (not in this words, but that was the message)
She, when I left, asked again to stay in my life.

This is a NC forever. I have no clue on people loving you and messing with you. People that actually value the real love they discover for you but don't want the full package. How low can you be. How lost can you be to hop around on ****s ... not feeling lucky and keeping a line with a real love you have.

Strange world. Proved again today too.
 

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It's because they want to be able to say they still talk with all their exes like it is because of how awesome they are.

They are such a positive force on this earth they do not leave any sadness or strife in their wake.

It solidifies the assumption they are the bigger one in the relationship because of how mature they are.
 

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It's because they want to be able to say they still talk with all their exes like it is because of how awesome they are.

They are such a positive force on this earth they do not leave any sadness or strife in their wake.

It solidifies the assumption they are the bigger one in the relationship because of how mature they are.
They like to be the one where you are pining for them and they keep it just outta reach... The key is that guys are just outta reach for them and the guy allows occasional sex without committing, be that guy.
 

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I have no clue of such kind of people, and I know you need to exclude them from your life, because

We saw each other last Sunday. The 2 weeks before, she started texting very often and intimate again, being much more spontaneous too.
I thought, and every well thinking guy, aha, ok, this is a good direction again.

Facing each other.
She: No, I still don't want to retake. I also want to **** around (not in this words, but that was the message)
She, when I left, asked again to stay in my life.

This is a NC forever. I have no clue on people loving you and messing with you. People that actually value the real love they discover for you but don't want the full package. How low can you be. How lost can you be to hop around on ****s ... not feeling lucky and keeping a line with a real love you have.

Strange world. Proved again today too.
She wanna play around with you as a backup.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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