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  1. CuddleJunkie

    The Power of the Harrison Ford Grin

    I've mentioned this before, but it is powerful enough to make a thread about it. Today I'm sharing with you all my best find to the day. A girl calls you out for being a Don Juan. She's trying to imply that you are not trustworthy. We know this is nothing but a sh¡t-test, so how are we going to...
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    Lessons I learnt from being a DonJuan for a year

    It's been a year already. I first came here as a complete mess, a 5 year relationship (3 years living together included) was falling apart really quickly, and I couldn't understand why. Soon, everything was over. I was devastated, I got angry, I could no think I would get laid again. But I kept...
  3. CuddleJunkie

    On her period

    I just wanted to share with the forum an experience about how you should NEVER get pissed off about rejection, some girls will reject you the first time for the silliest of reasons. Here we go! A girl who is friend with a bro invited me out with her girlfriends. I accepted, had a great night...
  4. CuddleJunkie

    Girl with boyfriend

    I could use your advice. Some weeks ago, I met a super qt girl, petite, super high-energy, artsy...basically my type. I soft-bully her, top banter ensues, I pass the ****-tests left and right. Then she starts building comfort. As night progresses we build our bubble, and she basically ends up...
  5. CuddleJunkie

    A reminder to build comfort and to qualify!

    I followed Heartiste's advice and finally read Mystery's book. The routines are...kind of cringey, but the model is solid, and it has opened my eyes on a couple of topics AT LEAST. I will certainly re-read it in the future, a lot to dig out from it. I just felt like offering my experiences in...
  6. CuddleJunkie

    Attraction is easy, and not enough

    My DonJuan brothers, I write this after a partying night, great fun, 3 girls had some level of attraction towards me. This is is a normal situation for me right now. I'm just a guy on my path that goes out to relax with friends and have fun after working hard on my goals. You could say I play...
  7. CuddleJunkie

    How to handle virgins

    So guys, some days ago I fvcked a virgin. Seduction was done that very night, and she didn't tell me it was her first time. Imagine my face when I see blood every fvcking where. Jesus. So anyhow, I was to much into the flow to back off, so I proceeded with my duties. The problem is, I felt...
  8. CuddleJunkie

    The natural beta-alpha debate dies here

    You are either born beta or alpha. That's true. What it is not true is that a guy that acts like a beta is beta. Being a real alpha or beta is about how you see the world, being what we called alpha and beta is about behaviour. So you grow up as a beta, your parents teach you to be nice to...
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    Different guys, different advice

    Those of you who have been reading the **** I say since I came here will have noticed a common trend in almost all of my posts. I always refer to my "over-alphaing", being too cold, too aloof... I'm overcoming this, for recently I confronted this problem of mine face to face. The thing is, the...
  10. CuddleJunkie

    They just want to feel small

    I was lying on my bed, contemplating another day full of nihilistic activities that would lead me to become the fabled bitter player... when it came to me. Every girl I've been with, no exception, has loved to put on some shirt of mine after having sex. Similar comments were made by them "This...
  11. CuddleJunkie

    My belief system

    This is what I believe in now, infidels get out please
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    Rejection is better than regret

    Just a little reminder guys. I finally decided to start with daygame after becoming comfortable with social circle gaming, and it was ****ing terrifying. I literally spent 30 minutes walking through the city (not even my own, I went to visit a friend) without approaching, even though 2 different...
  13. CuddleJunkie

    How to reject without **** exploding everywhere

    Hello DonJuans. First time I have find myself in such a situation: I already posted about this girl some time ago; she is from another town I have a friend in that I visit monthly. So when I met her she fell all over me wanting me to spend one more day there since I didn't escalate fast enough...
  14. CuddleJunkie

    We all have our story

    I have realized, after helping a friend go through a break-up, that we all are here for similar reasons. A sad story of broken trust, or one of being a ghost all through high-school to college. You know what I'm talking about, each one of us has its own personal flavor...but the basic recipe is...
  15. CuddleJunkie

    Krauser Banter

    I created a twitter acount to keep up to day with the blogs/podcasts I follow. So I decide to follow Nick Krauser's and I find stuff like this: https://twitter.com/Krauserpua/status/737420945745424384 Lmao tbh, I had no idea Krauser was this hardcore. What do you think about the guy? I love his...
  16. CuddleJunkie

    Your top 3 favorite novels

    Let's see what the DonJuans at SoSuave like to read! Mines: Siddartha, by Herman Hesse Lolita, by Vladimir Nabokov San Manuel Bueno Martir, by Miguel de Unamuno
  17. CuddleJunkie

    I need some help with comfort

    My brothers, 6 or 7 month ago I came here crying like a girl, talking about how I was too much of an alpha with my ex. I recognized it was alpha behaviour from a beta position, and I rationalized that once I fixed my beta mindset, I would stop being such an aggresive jerk. I was right. Now I'm...
  18. CuddleJunkie

    The Genie of Arnold Schwarzenegger

    I was browsing /fit/ and saw this amazing work of journalism. Arnold is the master of alphaness. So it seems that Arnie is training his bastard son. And a poster said the following, with this attached picture of Arnold Jr. mom. The post is as follows: "People bash Arnold for ****ing his...
  19. CuddleJunkie

    Best Martial Art

    Which one would you guys choose? This is what I have avalaible in my area: 1. Wing Chun. 2. Boxing. 3. Kick Boxing. 4. Kung Fu. 5. Muay Thai. 6. Judo. 7. Karate. 8. Jeet Kune Do Maybe I'm leaving something outside, but I don't remember any other kind in my area.
  20. CuddleJunkie

    Oneitis, a privileged perspective

    What are the conditions of possibility for Oneitis to appear? In which soil its seeds find the richest nutrients, and in which conditions does this climbing plant grows? I will share with all of you the ongoing oneitis process developing in my psyche, so we all can learn, discuss, and device the...
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