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When I meet women that I'm interested in, most of them aren't eager nor annoyed when I approach them. They tend to be neutral...not completely uninterested, but more passive. They won't mind chatting yet in my mind as I talk to them, I know most of my approaches will go nowhere even if I get...

Some time ago, I discovered a link to an extended essay called The Misandry Bubble on the sidebar of Reddit Red Pill. It was written nearly 9 years ago on Jan 1st, 2010. The author predicted that by 2020, this anti-male bubble will burst and result in a social correction between the genders...

I have trouble believing this after struggling with dating horribly throughout my 20s. I have 1.5 years left until I turn 30. I've searched and read through similar "dating in 30s" threads that were posted in our forum. So what exactly happens and changes for men when they cross into this...

It's been such a chore trying to game women for the past 10 years. I've been red pill since college, but I've struggled so much in getting numbers, 1st dates, and 2nd dates only to lead nowhere 90% of the time. I had to fight every single hurdle in the process. I would get a number to set up the...

I'm 5' 10". I began training 7 months ago, following the Stronglifts 3x5 beginner program and now the Madcow 5x5 intermediate program. My weight has been stable, staying between 188 and 193 lb. So that must mean I'm eating at or slightly above maintenance, which is good since I've continued to...

Today is the 5 month anniversary of my modified StrongLifts 3x5 program (w/ pull-ups) program that I began on April 3rd. I started most of the exercises with an empty barbell and progressed to today's stats below. I DMed EyeBRollin, but looks like he hasn't logged in for a while. He told me...

Women are just the way they are. They follow their emotions and are automatically hypergamous by nature. They can justify any random or poor behavior away based on their feelings. They can't help it since that's the biology in how they're wired. Men have no choice except to deal with this. We...

I met up with my best friend while I was visiting San Jose and we went barhopping on a weekday night. I chatted up 4 women on our night out and looking to get feedback so I can keep on improving. What's interesting is I'm behaving a little differently compared to how I was behaving before I put...

Been over 2 months since posting my last journal. To keep things concise, I'm going to post my Logs 4 and 5 separately. I've been following a modified version of StrongLifts 5x5 program that EyeBRollin recommended to me since April 3rd after scrapping my old routine. I hit the gym M/W/F every...

As I work on my priorities like finding a product job, I'm trying to stay consistent in building up my dating life. I'm at home most of the time, focused on my goals. When I do go out, it's usually to the same restaurant bar, or downtown nightlife area with friends. There's no way I'll make...

Lately, I've been focused on finding a new job after wrapping up my consulting projects. I've been staying at home doing work. My main priorities have been searching for a new, better paying full-time job, learning marketable skills, and working out at the gym. The only time I leave the house is...

I'd like to know how you guys go about staying disciplined with your diet without sacrificing your social life. Do you count calories with MyFitnessPal, estimate your macronutrient intake, cook up and eat the same meal everyday, or follow a different regimen? I'm curious if you have a plan...

I've been keeping a game journal here and trying to make steady progress with every new set of girls I approach and date. The latest 3rd set, that I haven't posted yet, was only with 3 women. I got rejected by a bartender when asking for her number, ignored by a mutual friend's sister when...

We've all talked about how the dating market has been sh*t for over a decade unless you're top 0.01-20% man possessing tight frame/SMV, in which case you have endless options. Some here have said that the market is due for a serious correction. Like all markets, what goes up must come down and...

I'm not brand new to working out. I've pressed weights on and off at the gym since college, but eventually stopped and lost my muscle mass and gained body fat. I've been working out since last December and I'm still staying consistent. I'm at 2-3 sessions per week, but with more discipline I'll...

Alright, finally getting around to Set 2. I reflected on everything that's happened since Set 1 and overall, I need to approach more and really understand how to escalate effectively like a natural. My #1 issue is escalation. I know that I'll eventually get dates from my approaches, but if I...

Why am I making an approach journal?: I've spent too many hours reading through interesting yet pessimistic threads that revolve around the plight of being a minority, today's terrible dating market, and other yadda yadda. I was doing that rather than taking real action. When going out, I'd...

I've been on and off here for a long time. After discovering this site, I've become much more social, determined, and self-aware. My b*llsh*t tolerance is low through my own experience with women and hearing members' stories here. I also stay true to who I am and don't bend myself just to fit...

I work 50+ hours per week because I have to deal with overseas contacts in Asia. I have a list of tasks and goals I want to get done, but I barely make a dent in them because of work stress. I constantly feel like I'm on call by day and night. In the back of my mind, I know I need to force in...

Hey guys, I tried to keep my story with this Latina girl as short as possible. But, I felt that I had to include my previous hangouts with her to give you clarity on the emotional dynamics. Please help me assess her. I'm confused and I wonder what I need to do next to keep nailing her. Maybe I...