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It's not exactly been an easy 6 weeks but I feel a lot better than I did. Managed to lose a stone in weight, my lifts are as high as they've ever been and I'm making progress. I know others have said to date loads of girls, honestly, I don't have the energy currently, I'd rather put it towards...

Been 5 weeks NC now, it's still very hard. Initially after the break up I had some good fortune in that I got an offer through for a university in London which I'm buzzing for, and had an unexpected invitation to a friends wedding in Thailand, that coupled with a ONS temporarily took my mind...

Let's forget the girl for a moment. I don't know how old you are, but when you were 18 did you envisage your dream woman being married with 3 children and you prising her away from that? Because I doubt that you did. Man, I understand that it is hard because you obviously have feelings for...

You're thinking way too much about this. Treat her like anyone else. Do you analyse whether you say hello or goodbye to any of the other staff? No, you just do it automatically. Do the same with her, just treat her like anyone else. The only reason you're in contact with her at all is for...

I'm not quite as cynical as you mate. I do think there are some genuine women, I just think it's rare and unfortunately at our age (or mine anyway, I'm not sure how old you are but I'm 27,) we tend to end up with young girls who don't have their life in order yet and are bound to fluctuate with...

Social Leper- What an absolute *****, it's one thing to sleep with someone when you're broken up but to randomly text you telling you? Clearly some pitiful attempt to make you jealous. I've slept with another girl since breaking up with my ex but I haven't felt the need to announce it...

Wise words. This kind of thing is a rite of passage as much as anything else I feel.

Honestly, just memorise loads of other numbers and it will go. I've been NC for 3 weeks now. Still miss her which is natural as it was a 2.5 year relationship, but I'm through the worst of it. Looking forward to moving to London in September, got some holidays planned and a -2 week fitness...

We've been there before, or I have anyway. Start memorising a load of random phone numbers, you'll soon forget hers fairly quickly.

I would definitely be interested in this. I'm 27 years old 6ft 1 and currently 102 KG. I'm aiming to get into the best shape I can by September which is when I begin law school, but a good midway point is July when I go on holiday. I'm currently doing 3 work outs p/w which consist of a...

I think what she needs and what you need is to move on, if you want my personal opinion. You advise others very well but throughout most of your posts there is always a hint of hoping for reconciliation. The reason I've so vehemently stuck to NC is because I've wasted months in the past...

Went out last week and had a ONS, people may say it doesn't help, is disagree and say it does massively. Loz- take the call if you want but I think we both no the way it's going to go, I'd be surprised if an attempt at reconciliation is made but to be fair I don't have much experience of this...

UCL :) Do you really want her back though? Sure you may have changed but will she? I think what is sometimes lost on this website is that just because the girl has dumped you doesn't automatically mean that you did something wrong and she was heaven personified. For example in my...

Got an offer through for a top University in London today. Absolutely ****ing buzzing, I still can't believe it, I was really expecting a rejection. Just goes to show, sometimes things happen for a reason, if I was still with the ex maybe I'd have been tempted to reject it in favour of...

I guess the only question that I'm still asking myself is was I too cool about it? Too quick to accept her decision? To clarify, she called me said she wanted to meet tomorrow because "I need to talk to you," I basically said there's no need to do it face to face, spoke to her for a little...

Rapidly feeling much much better about this. I just remind myself that if I met her tonorrow for the first time, I likely wouldn't be overly interested. Obviously there's 2 years of emotional attachment on top of that which complicates things and there are specific things about her personality...

Maybe meet them first and show them that their preconceived notion is incorrect?

Very similar situation to my own. I just broke up with a girl and we had a 2 week trip to Florida booked amongst a couple other small trips. The thing is I was genuinely really looking forward to the holiday, and we always had a lot of fun when we went away together. But I didn't even...

Slightly different circumstances but yes, I can do much better than my ex girlfriend but the fact she left me made me extremely upset and it is difficult to take. Just one of life's cruel ironies I guess

This thread is an extremely good place to vent for sure. Cheered myself up hugely by going through some old clothes that didn't fit me (I put on some weight over the last 2 years) and noticing that my gym work and dieting is clearly paying off as they almost all fit now, some not quite but...