Lozboss
Master Don Juan
Gents,
My Update.
Finally got the call from the ex asking why I had been cold/distant for the last few weeks.
I told her I wasn't interested in being 'just friends' and I wanted a relationship or nothing.
She said she didn't want to lose me, that she had realized that me not being in her life was not something she wanted. That she wanted to try again.
So we are having dinner, taking it slow and no pressure.
I share this because to those of you looking for reconciliation: No contact works. It helps you get some power back, it heals you.
After the NC period, you still act distant but you have selected contact. Sooner or later they will crack and you can tell them the situation- a soft ultimatum.
My Update.
Finally got the call from the ex asking why I had been cold/distant for the last few weeks.
I told her I wasn't interested in being 'just friends' and I wanted a relationship or nothing.
She said she didn't want to lose me, that she had realized that me not being in her life was not something she wanted. That she wanted to try again.
So we are having dinner, taking it slow and no pressure.
I share this because to those of you looking for reconciliation: No contact works. It helps you get some power back, it heals you.
After the NC period, you still act distant but you have selected contact. Sooner or later they will crack and you can tell them the situation- a soft ultimatum.