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hi, if everything was to remain constant, i'd be able to retire at age 40. Not that impressive, but earlier than 98% of the population I'm sure. of course things don't stay the same and the figures could change, but something dawned on me recently as I took a day off work. What would I do...

Almost 4 years ago I got burned by a cute girl because I was an ultimateAFC. I had learned the behavior from my father and didn't know any other way to act with women, or in life itself. But then I found this site, and started reading the way of Pook. I understood his view of improving myself...

when I'm out at a restaurant or someplace with friends, and we're just sitting there, I have real trouble participating in group discussions. I just sorta clam up. When we're up doing something, I can usually participate a little more, but, when just sitting around, I'm always the quiet one...

We've all been there. You're just minding your own business and suddently you see a beautiful woman you just have to meet. But you don't, instead you just keep on walking/sitting. You choke. What is going through our minds when we choke? Are we giving the girl too much importance? Are we...

I'm sitting here on a Friday night, not having any desire to go out. Bars are smokey and boring. My friends are smokey and boring. I'm not interested in having a cheeseburger at 3am. Nightclubs are superficial meat-markets where even the dancefloor has rules, apparantly. You have to dance...

I don't believe in mixing business with pleasure. I do however, believe in practicing what this site teaches on the women at work. Sort of like controlled experiments. I also believe in being myself, especially since I love the transformations I've made. Unfortunately, I'm constantly being...

i'm fed up with all the chicks at work. it was great at first because i was so shy and they were great target practice. i practiced on most every woman i saw. but now, all day long they walk by staring at me. i'm tired of them smiliing at me and saying hi. or if they come up and talk to me for...

my practice woman has been seeing the office chump. Why would she turn down a budding DJ in preference for a guy who is AFC all over the place. (he walks staring at the carpet!) I'm wondering if she doesn't have much dating experience, and TV and movies have warped her tiny mind into...

"we're going just as friends right?" I got this line last night. I answered with a "well, yeah" with a voice tone suggesting I was surprised she was worried I was thinking something different. Is that how I should have played it?? I've been going with the attitude of "I just want to have a...

i'm big on affirmations, they really work for me. I'm curious if anyone here uses affirmations when a girl that you know is interested in you and you're playing it cool is getting attention from other guys. Still getting rid of AFC tendencies. and we all know jealousy is AFC personified...

Today I asked for a phone number and got it. i've never done that before. And it wasn't too difficult either. I didn't blush or stutter or have my voice crack or anything. I know some are thinking 'big freakin deal', but, it was. Now, I'm unstoppable. For the newbies, the DJ bible works...

for those of you who have seen me post before, i'm only just getting the hang of all this. I've got the mindset (thanks Pook) and the body language is down. And conversation skills are continually improving (just talk about them and occasionally tease). So now I'm ready to enter into the area...

Last week I met a girl at work who's showing pretty definite signs (fingers through hair, sticking chest out, laughing at my lame jokes). And of course I give her the ****y and funny. How would you guys go from ****y and funny to asking a girl out? I'm thinking 'okay, if you insist, you...