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    Oh boy - Block...Mute...Stay Friends...what a mess

    Alright. Had an amazing relationship with a girl for about a year. Intense, beautiful, connected, chemistry. We had both come out of bad relationships, and mutually agreed that neither of us wanted to get married or have kids. She used to give me a playful "gagging" look whenever she thought...
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    Hey guys... Past year has been absolutely amazing for me. I met a girl in class... And the attraction was pretty unbelievable. I've never experienced a situation where both myself and a girl were so instantaneously drawn to each other. Things happened fairly quickly... And at the very...
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    Girl accuses me TWICE of being a liar, when I'm not expressing EXACTLY how I feel in the EXACT moment...crazy?

    I've been dating this girl for the past couple months. It was very very intense from the get-go... And things were actually going quite well. One thing that seemed like a weeeee bit of a red flag is that on the third date she said she loved me (who can blame her right? ) I'm not one to judge...
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    Being exceptional in bed...and the dreaded "I love you" that comes with it...

    Hey guys... When I sleep with women, I am EXTREMELY in-tune with them both emotionally and physically. I just always connect with them on a much deeper level, than something purely "physical". Not sure how I do it...but it is something that I cannot switch off. It sounds like this should be a...
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    How can one strategically avoid a girl without coming off as a douche...?

    Hey guys... A mega hot girl move into my area back in November. We run into each other every few days walking our dogs. Even though I have her number...it turns out I misread her IL. I was basically trying to get to know a girl who had no interest at all...haha...WHOOPS! Not a big deal...
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    First date in almost years...totally bombed...and went from nice to nightmare.

    Hey guys... So I got out of an extremely destructive on and off 8 year relationship just before covid started. Really glad to be out of it, but when I reflect back on how I was before I met her... I feel that now... like I'm just completely withdrawn from women in general. I enjoy my life. I...
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    Tinder match...arg.... Turning into a texting buddy

    So...I generally have one rule when it comes to online dating: If I don't get a number within the first few messages, I assume interest is extremely low and I'll generally just move on. I'm also not big on online dating... And for sure I don't have a lot of experience with it as most of the...
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    Do I have mental issues? 1) Hard time adopting IDGF 2) feeling guilty after getting laid.

    Okay...so...backstory. I was on the forum 12 years ago (another username), with around 3000+posts. Knew the bible inside and out...and was VERY successful with my energy around women, to the point where everyone noticed. I remember guys in school saying, "how do you do it man?" This forum...
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    Did I miss something here?

    This situation went on for a few months...and ended about 3 months ago...just wanted another take on it Met a hot girl (slightly older) when looking for a townhouse. She was actually one of the owners selling, planning on moving out in May 2020 (this was back in October) I ended up not buying...
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    How to get out of thought / attitude of "chasing"?

    Hey guys, Girl - 37 years old. Ended a relationship with her Fiance 12 months ago (bad break-up)...and moved to LA to get away from it. Met her on an online Zoom class (acting) last month. She asked me if I would help her with a scene she needed to film for an audition, and we exchanged...
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    Online Bumble Message/Date Advice needed...

    So...to keep it short... Matched with a really cool girl...athletic, rock climber, artist...veeeeeerry interesting. The past few matches I have had, after a few humorous/C&F messages back and forth, I have always casually told them to shoot me their number, and I'll hit them up. However...in...
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    My mental issues and inability to read women are driving me INSANE

    Hey guys... So I am finding myself STILL not being able to pull myself out if whatever BS rut I am in. Since ending an LTR a year ago...I find myself: 1) wanting to be around women...but feeling like I couldn't to bothered 2) totally cool being single...but at times lonley as fvck 3)...
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    Having social issues - how do I get out of it?

    Hey guys... Sooooo this is probably going to sound a bit pathetic. Many years ago (before I got married), I was constantly social. Had a lot of friends, was invited to many parties, hangouts, get-togethers, etc. I FELT amazing. Dated some really hot women, and truly felt my groove. After I...
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    Not meeting a girl's HEIGHT expectations...

    okay...so I know I messed up on this one. Been doing the online dating thing. Mtched wtih a really cute girl who very CLEARLY wrote in her profile, "I am 5'9", so please be over 6' " Based on on other things she wrote in her profile...she knows EXACTLY what she wants. But...I really did not...
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    Was this a red flag...or me reacting due to my own insecurities?

    Long story short....met a girl online. Cute and had an interesting profile. She also clearly stated that she does not like texting conversations. After I matched with her and a couple brief messages went back and forth...I suggested that it would be better to get to know each other over a...
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    How soon do you guys delete matches from online dating? Tinder, etc.

    Just curious... Normally, if I match from someone on Tinder, I delete if there is NO response; the convos don't go anywhere; or she won't give up # to get away from the nonsense texting conversation. When it came to the "normal" way of meeting women, I used to be in the habit of nexting...
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    Advice on how to handle a TINDER match...hmmmm

    Hey guys, Well...I don't "usually" use Tinder...but about a week ago, I matched with this gorgeous fitness trainer. Usually I prefer younger women, but she is 43 (same age as me), and we have a lot of similar interests...we are also both vegan. I initiated convo, and messages back and forth...
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    Hooking up with an ex Playboy Model.

    I wrote about this woman earlier in the year. She is around 10 years older than me...and though we are friends on FB, Instagram, Twitter, etc...I really don't talk or communicate with her. Mainly because though she has shown MEGA interest...my only real interest would be having casual fun with...
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    Hooking up with a Playboy model with violent BF - good or bad - opinions?

    Well... I complete CONTRADICTION to my AFC post from today... 8 months ago, a girl (40's) stopped by my place at 3:00am. She had 4 dogs with her...and is dressed in only a long T-shirt. Her boyfriend supposedly pulled a knife on her, and threatened her. She mistook my door for someone...
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    argggg...just did something major AFC...

    Well... I was frustrated...average...and felt like a chump...so I guess it fits. A girl I really liked came back into my life, after we parted ways quite a few years ago (parted ways as I really liked her...she did not like me). I have a really sh*tty instinct when it comes to girls I like...
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