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    Red flags

    So whilst my gf of one year is beautiful and treats me well, (she is 33, I am 36) she has been revealing things to me about her past and I no longer see her as LTR material but I think I have a bit of oneitis due to her beauty. Over the past few months I have found out: -She moved out of home...
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    Home dinner dates

    Do u guys get the girl to help out when she comes/get her to make the salad?(for easy kino) Or do you let her chill while you do your thing. Any good music suggestions to have on in the background?
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    Do you give her reasons why you're dumping her?

    If you've been with a girl for a few years and you may even live together, and she did something like violate a boundary eg hanging 1 on 1 with a male "friend" (behind your back..she doesn't know that I know) and being disrespectful.. Would you tell her why you're dumping her or just say it...
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    Regret moving in with GF

    Should have listened to the advice I got about not moving in.. She did something that I would have usually frozen her out for or soft nexted for but as we live together I couldn't. I feel like I have lost some power. Is there anyway I can move out without destroying the relationship? Easy for...
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    Ignore or withdraw from girlfriend?

    In the morning before work she is usually happy, flirty, affectionate, kisses me before we leave for work... But this morning I could tell something was up. I didn't say anything I just acted normal and when she left there was no kiss etc.. she just walked out the door and said bye with kind of...
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    GF in contact with her ex

    EDIT: Thought I better just keep it in one thread. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223828
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    Red flag?

    My gf and I share a computer (we have just moved in together and she is 25 and I'm 28..together a year) and when I was looking for a previous link through my history I saw she has visited her ex's Facebook page and a photo of his. Should I start planning my exit strategy? Am I over-reacting?
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    ''I love you'' game

    Ever since my gf of 8 months started saying I love you, 60% of the time I just smile and kiss her, 20% of the time I'll smile and say something like ''I know'' or ''Who wouldn't'' and the other 20% of the time I'll say it back. So since she is used to me being a bit of an @ss I was surprised at...
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    Just dumped my gf

    We are apart at the moment due to her having to spend 2 weeks in South America for her work. I find out from her that her and her girl work friends had some drinks and then went out to a Tango dancing club (very touristy place) and that she was learning to Tango dance with other men (not...
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    Cohabitation rules/expectations

    I was wondering if you guys have a talk with your girl before you move in with her about any rules or expectations? My girlfriends work are giving her a house basically free of rent and she has told me she would like me to move in (I will be living there rent free). I haven't lived with a...
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    Should I be an @ss to my gf

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    Dealing with rudeness

    I know alot is said about withdrawing attention/affection for punishing unwanted behaviour but is this the way to go for the following situaitons? 1. A girl you are on a 1st/2nd date with cuts you off while you are mid sentence. 2. Your girlfriend cuts you off mid sentence. I know girls can't...
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    Overt competition anxiety?

    Now I know that overtly telling your gf/wife that other girls want you is not a good idea as they should be able to sense it by your covert communications. However last night I was in bed with my gf and I got a text msg from a guy I play social sport with but not really a friend. My gf's head...
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    Girls fishing for compliments

    How do you handle girls that fish for compliments? Is it a sh!t test? An example being if your girlfriend sent you a pic of her wearing new earings or a necklace and asking if you like it? Would a good answer be something like ''Yeah I guess I could be seen in public with you wearing them''...
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    Discussing SMV with girls

    So the other night I was laying in bed with my girlfriend, we were joking around and what not and she playfully teased me about my age. (I'm 32 and 7 years older than her) It went something like this: Her: (can't remember exactly the line but she ended it with 'old man') Me: I'm younger than...
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    How did I handle this?

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    Sh!t test?

    See her twice a week but not seeing her this week cos of her work. Yesterday I was at a sports thing playing (play in a mixed team with girls) and she sent me a good luck message earlier on to which I replied Thanks baby.. I didn't contact her the rest of the day/night and I woke up to this...
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