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I did this same exact thing not that long ago. Sucks soo much. Things were going great, hooked up a few times, and I got drunk at dinner and told the girl I really liked her after hooking up. She completely back off, started acting weird, etc. I did the only recovery I could - which was to back...

Girls read "advice" books these days, too. If your girlfriend wants a commitment in the future, and thinking that she will never get one from you, it actually DOES makes sense for her to back off and see if you come up with a better offer. It doesn't mean that she doesn't care. Take the advice...

Its still early on and she could be playing some version of "not being too easy" ...girls have game too these days. I personally wouldn't go last minute, because you shouldn't be waiting around for her. Say that you committed to something else and offer another day and time. If she agrees...

I just read this thread and thought it had a lot of good tips. Any update on your situation or how you feel about this girl now? Just wondering how things unfolded a few months later.

A brief description and then I turn the question on them.

I think what I meant to say was my "frame" possibly, thanks for the correction. I have a good amount of girls trying to talk to me, I am very picky myself and did like that particular girl and prefer to spend my time/money with someone who I feel chemistry with and am very attracted to. I see...

Good post, I needed this today.

LiveFree, why so much energy towards this? You sound more like a mad conspiracy theorist than anything else. Many people have gay family members, etc these days and its generally accepted in the more "educated" states and in most reputable countries. "If the world becomes so gay centric" ... You...

I think I'm going to have to. Her interest has dropped dramatically since I did this. So pissed.

I had a 3rd date with a girl last night who I am very interested in. We hooked up afterwards and I lost all common sense and said to her "I really like you a lot" to which she responded "you're drunk" ! After she left I asked if she got home okay and she said she did and had a good time. I...

I don't think she'd say she had a "great time" if she wasn't at least a little interested in seeing you again. What was your follow up text?

I've met some crazy ones online, but two pretty high quality girls. One from a super-rich family that owns a chain store...she wasn't up to my standard of looks to date seriously but I could have. Another girl I have been going out with, in graduate school, pretty, has her shyt together, chill...

Just don't always respond right away. Don't overanalyze it too much. I will text back and forth a few times. I am honestly busy most of the time and don't feel like having "text conversations," but its good to touch base with a girl you are trying to get closer to and let her know you aren't...

I think there is something to be said for having something to bring to the table, especially as you get older. This doesn't mean that you can't get girls and hook ups along the way. Experience is the best teacher. I've had LTR's with some very beautiful women as a college student, working random...

Where are some of you people from? Its a little far fetched to compare homosexuals to pedophiles, don't you think? One is the case of two consenting adults who much of the time are looking for committed relationships; the other of an adult who preys upon a small child. I don't see the...

Ask her when she'll be back. If she's interested its really just a normal conversation. If she ignores it, she prob wouldn't go through with plans anyway.

Its not necessarily her fault that she has a crazy ex. I would tell the guy to back off, personally. He's overstepping his boundaries with your woman and messing with your relationship. Its disrespectful to you and it sounds like your girl isn't trying to lead him on with any false hope.

She ended up getting back to me a few hours after I posted this in a really positive way, saying she had a great time and wants to hang out again and specified the night...so its on. What I learned from this: PATIENCE.

I had a date last night with a girl who I have been highly interested in for about a month now. This is the second time we have hung out, with a few weeks in between. We went out on a casual dinner date outdoors, conversation flowed, and it ended with an intense make-out session in my car in...

Couldn't agree with this more. I have been doing this on and off for some time now. Tone of voice and speaking clearly/smoothly is huge.