"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Quick lesson on patience and desperation.

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Just over 3 weeks ago - I pulled a chick, number grab- kiss closed. Set up a date on the 14th, kiss close. She told me she had fun, thanked me for the day. (only spent an hour on her though - this is the "get to know you") Kept it light and fun, dropped her off home.

She seemed keen at the time.

Since then I didnt contact her, I have other plates and work on so extra plates just arent a priority.

She pulled in contact today, still keen and not at all upset that she'd been set back as a low priority, didn't feel snubbed and I set up another meet for next week. (she is awarei am a busy man and my time is valuable.)



Sosuave taught me that the girl should be the one to initiate as much as possible. ESPECIALLY AFTER THE FIRST DATE. (Now I never initiate after the first meet - If they dont come for it then someone else gets the D)

Sosuave taught me to spin plates and not to worry about the girls because they will come.

Sosuave taught me to use the telephone to set up dates and dont waste time trying to charm or entertain via text.


Sosuave was right on all three points.

Her hamster spun enough over two weeks wondering why I hadnt chased until she gave in and had to find out if I would come and smash her back doors in.

Fortunately for her - I am quite happy to do so.



Utilise what youve learnt here boys.

peace.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nice one.

Yeah, I think I'm pretty much done making first contact after the first date.
 

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Update - Didnt contact her until yesterday (the day of) and that was just a quick confirmation txt saying "Ill be at yours around 6".

She says cool, Therefore I'm not wasting time and she's still keen.


More proof that running it "Textbook DonJuan" is productive.

No trying to charm her over the phone - short and sweet, less is more and let my winning personality and powerful smile do the work for me in person.

Stay strong, keep the phone on a tight leash.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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