"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hello guys so I have meet a girl i tried to call but she didn't pick up the phone. I waited for 2 day after i called her and text her again
Asked how is she doing she text back with a question how was i doing so I text her back after 20 min.
After that there wasn't any texting going on between us till the second day. So I decide to text her to ask for a coffee with me. And she said "Yes! If I'm back ofcourse." Because she's back home in other state.
We are college student. I'm wondering What should I do next? Should I ask her when will she be back? Or just text her back with just "cool" or something like than so that it doesn't look like I'm pushing her??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ask her when she'll be back. If she's interested its really just a normal conversation. If she ignores it, she prob wouldn't go through with plans anyway.
 
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It is very healthy to have a infant mentality. And I have found the best way to abundant is to have options and many of then. Abundant of girls. And it seems like you are a starter. If you don't feel like doing approaches yet, you can start from something easier. Something like online messaging. You can try online sites or simply go to Instagram, get some cute girls' kik and kik them. Since you are in college, looks matter very much. So have a hot or even a model-like picture. You will see a whole different styl of text you receive once try k ow you are good looking wih value. And by value, I mean options. You might feel like it is disturb you that you are not fair with this one girl, but they're is no need to feel so. It is normal to date multiple woman, at least why they are teaching here. But I can understand completely if you feel like cheating if you go and date multiple girls. It depends on your level of understanding. Report back what happens.
 
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i tried to call but she didn't pick up the phone. I waited for 2 day after i called her and text her again
Asked how is she doing she text back with a question how was i doing

low interest^

I would not put effort into this one. Go date girls who have a real interest in you man. If you currently do not have this type of girls in your life.....find them.
 
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Yeah thanks for the reply.I feel the same way so I have decide to not say anything if she is interest then she should ask me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jaszhu said:
Yeah thanks for the reply.I feel the same way so I have decide to not say anything if she is interest then she should ask me
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Sometimes I read stuff on this board & I'm like "WTF is this guy serious?!" This isn't completely one of those moments, but its close.

Realize something.

When you first meet a girl, the chances of her being totally head over heels into you are not likely, UNLESS she is highly physically attracted to you.

What usually ends up happening is if she has ENOUGH interest to give you her contact info and go out with you on a couple dates, then her interest in you SHOULD rise significantly IF you know what your doing (attraction, showing your value, building comfort etc).

Also and this is just reality nowadays, in the beginning MOST girls will not take your phone calls. Text is what every girl is all about. Yes some girls will text with you all day & have no intention of going out with you, however those are girls you should weed out quickly.

I wouldn't say this girl has LOW INTEREST in you, as much as I would say she is UNDECIDED on you at this point & that's pretty normal this early in the game.

Unless you have an idea of when she will be back, I would text her back and ask her when she's going to be back home. Then cut the conversation soon after and hit her up down the line when she's in town and re-establish that connection.

Then hit her up and go from there. Remember women are emotional, they go off feeling and those feelings can change quickly when they are unsure about a guy.

As long as you don't chump it and contact her too much and continue to meet more girls, I am willing to bet she will be down to hang out with you when she gets back.










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ignore her. if she texts back ok if she doesnt then NEXT>
 
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