"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interesting Date + Text-Game

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Had a first date with a cool HB who is pretty close to ideal, about a 7.5, great career, with a ton in common. But I was feeling zero chemistry, and I surmised her interest as very low-level as the night progressed despite rapport and my attempts at kino. I decided to chalk it up as a loss. I offered her a lift home.

I wasn't going to escalate, and was happy for her to go her own way.

Outside of her house, she leans over to kiss me, then says "we must do this again." The next morning, a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which was all a little surprising.

However, my follow-up text was ignored. Of course.

Text her again, or phone ASAP and just schedule another date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChrisHughes said:
Had a first date with a cool HB who is pretty close to ideal, about a 7.5, great career, with a ton in common. But I was feeling zero chemistry, and I surmised her interest as very low-level as the night progressed despite rapport and my attempts at kino. I decided to chalk it up as a loss. I offered her a lift home.

I wasn't going to escalate, and was happy for her to go her own way.

Outside of her house, she leans over to kiss me, then says "we must do this again." The next morning, a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which was all a little surprising.

However, my follow-up text was ignored. Of course.

Text her again, or phone ASAP and just schedule another date?
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IGNORED? how many days was it ignored?
 
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I don't think she'd say she had a "great time" if she wasn't at least a little interested in seeing you again. What was your follow up text?
 
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I surmised her interest as very low-level

Im going to say the date was a lose-lose. Either you misread her interest level and she ACTUALLY WAS interested, and you never escalated....or her interest level really is low....BUT she's the type of girl that loves attention and free dinners.

That being said...a girl that is not attracted to a guy, will not kiss him. It would be equivalent to us kissing a HB3. Text her in a few days and try to schedule another date...something with alcohol this time. And see if her interest level is there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There were definitely no free dinners. I bought her one drink, and just the one.

Her kissing me on the lips followed my "all the best" when I expected her to just exit the car. My follow-up text the next morning was a facetious text about our next date, but there was no definite offer on my part, or no concrete date set.
 
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I'm confused. Was your follow-up text a response to hers or a brand new thread?

If it was a follow-up to hers then there was nothing to respond to. Just ask her out again. If she ignores, then next.

If it was a new thread and she ignored, it is a 100% next.
 
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