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    Are first date hookups usually one night stands?

    I'm not quite sure how to phrase what I'm asking, but I've noticed a wide variety of behaviour from women after we've had sex on the first date. After a first date hookup, sometimes they have 0 interest in meeting up again, others they want to hookup/go out again, others want to actually start...
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    What to say if she asks if it's a booty call?

    I invite a chick over and she calls the idea out saying if she comes over this is a booty call, and asks if that's what I want? What's a good counter response?
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    Tinder girl won't give out number

    ...but wants to meet up nonetheless. She said she has had some bad experiences in the past giving out her number over Tinder, but would like to set up a date via the app. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
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    Online girls who chat endlessly

    How do you handle women you're talking to online that are presumably interested, but keep using precursors like "you don't even know me yet!!' and when you ask them out say things like "ya sometime, after we get to know each other more". And it's not like I asked them out on the first message...
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    Do you guys re-engage former leads?

    I'm sure most of us have tons of girls in our phone that we went out with once, twice, maybe even 10 times at one point but for whatever reason...things didn't work out. These aren't necessarily "ex's" but maybe girls you dated for a while. There seems to be a strong movement to not contact...
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    What percentage of talking/listening should you do?

    I talk a lot. I've even brought it up straightforwardly on dates in a half-joking manner, and basically every time they kinda nervously laugh and agree. This isn't necessarily a date killer, cause if there is enough attraction or maybe we have enough in common, their interest will remain high...
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    Is this salvagable?

    Sorry for the long post, I didn't want to miss any details and want to demonstrate the girls interest level as time went on. Met this girl online about 4 weeks ago. She was new to the site and her interest level was ultra high and although she was working 7 straight days 10-12 hour shifts she...
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    What's the etiquette after unanswered text?

    What do you guys do if a girl doesn't respond to your text? I'm not generally referring to women that are non-responsive on the whole, in that case I would just move on. I'm mainly talking about women who at least have a medium level interest level and have generally been responding well...but...
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    Is dating down almost mandatory?

    Needless to say, I'm somewhat frustrated lately with dating. I've dated a few attractive women this year (last year), not runway models but decent looking girls who are within my range. I'm happy with that. But at the same time I feel like these girls in the same league as me are always...
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    Anyone had a girl not attracted to you via online dating?

    The past 2 dates I had I'm almost certain the girls weren't attracted to me, or at the very least weren't overly attracted physically. Girl #1 shows up, looks about the same as her photos. When I ask her what she's having to drink, she makes an excuse how she doesn't usually drink alcohol on...
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    Recovery texts

    Anyone have any good advice/lines to use to text a girl if she suddenly went ghost? This is more common in online dating of course, where they have lots of options but I think it's a good skill to have to recover leads that were interested at one point but something got in the way. Hopefully...
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    Should I expand my options of meeting girls?

    If this has been discussed thoroughly before, then I apologize. But I meet probably 80% of my plates via online dating, Tinder, POF etc. I find it difficult to set up a date with an attractive woman, let alone have something meaningful. But I have noticed that if the girl "knows you" through...
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    How to set up meet ups with a girl you nailed on first date

    So I met up with this girl from POF earlier this week, and I ended up bringing her back and we hooked up at my place. From my estimation, she seems pretty slutty and also has a lot of options based on her comments in passing about other dudes she knows. She also has a job which is very social...
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    If you make lots of money, how does a girl even know?

    I always hear people say that being rich/having lots of money adds a lot of value to your worth...but how would a girl even know how much you make? I'll just be blunt and use myself as an example. I make about 150k/year with my self employed business. I live on my own in a decent apartment in...
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    Is girls disappearing common?

    I don't mean after like a few dates where they kind of drift off because both parties know the date was bad and you just leave it like that. I mean a girl you've been out with 8 times over a month, you've met pretty much all of her friends, every date went well and she showed high interest level...
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    How to deal with vague "busy" responses

    So I was chatting with this girl at the drive-thru the other day, asked her out, she said "Sure" instantly. When I asked for her number she briefly added "I have a boyfriend, but ya..." and gave me her number. Texted her later, super fast responses and seemingly high interest level. Said we'll...
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    Measurement results after 8 months

    I started around last November and was sick most of the winter, but got some minor initial strength gains...not much though. I took measurements in March and haven't re-measured until now, November. These results are by no means a thinly veiled brag, I really have only been going about...
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    "Befriending" girls

    Now before everyone says "NEXT" to the girl I'm about to describe, lately I've been more open minded in regards to not dropping girls at the drop of a hat. I met this girl for a drink/food yesterday, things went very well I thought. Texted her saying we should meet up again etc...she said she...
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    Tried street approaches - got blown out

    ...maybe this isn't my thing? I could barely get into conversations with 2/3 of the girls, they were always busy/on their way somewhere. I realize some of those are just made up excuses by them, but I literally had a tough time getting them to stop to chat. And yes, I was being coached along the...
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    Can you get lots of action just by approaching tons of girls?

    I just moved downtown a couple months ago, and now the weather is getting nice and the girls are out in droves wearing short clothing and slutty outfits. It's pretty nice I must admit. As someone who has stepped outside the box a bit the past year, actually asking out girls instead of relying on...
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