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    Attention seekers

    What is the best way to treat attention seekers? I'm dating a girl that seems to thrive on attention from others, but is just a big tease. She'll flirt then walk away having had no interest in the first place. We're dating and it's going well, but can't figure out the best way to treat...
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    Last night together before braking up

    i'm so angry now though. feel like i want to get back at her and having sex with her and throwing her out sounds like a good idea. i don't have a better one at the moment. just really angry.
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    Last night together before braking up

    may do this. just heard she may have cheated.
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    Last night together before braking up

    So? They are girls I'm looking to date, just I haven't progressed that far with them yet as I only just broke up with this girl. Her seeing them is not about her being jealous because a girl has sent me a text, it's about her knowing I am going to be seeing other women.
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    Last night together before braking up

    Ok, so good time, orgasm, not talking about feelings etc. I have a few girls texting me. Should I accidentally let her see this is happening? Get that hamster going a bit?
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    Last night together before braking up

    i appreciate it might not be the best idea, but with regards to perhaps getting her back in the future, i think it's necessary. we may argue, but i think things could be fixed. i'm already working on finding someone new to help with the hurt, but i really want to play this right leaving...
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    Last night together before braking up

    so my gf (or ex if you like) is coming over this week for us to say our goodbyes. basically, just have a last night together - movie, meal, sex (i hope!). we are breaking up because we always just end back fighting and talking about breaking up. i would like her to reconsider the breakup...
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    Final goodbye?

    Confident about what? I can bring her over and spend the night making her orgasm and then do NC. No doubts there. I'm just wondering which is the best idea taking into consideration I may want her to break NC in a month or so.
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    Final goodbye?

    It was my idea, so don't think she's trying to get me back. Although I suggested it, I'm now not sure. I know I shouldn't, but I think I want her back. With that in mind, what is best?: 1. don't reply to her text and go no contact (our last meeting was arguing etc.) 2. see her...
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    Final goodbye?

    just never felt like she was fully into this and it caused problems as a result. trust issues etc. we just kept ending up fighting and thinking about breaking up, so we just did. we broke up for like a month twice before.
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    Final goodbye?

    Just broken up with my gf. have the option of her coming over tomorrow to have a last night together and say goodbye. Should I? Shouldn't I? She offered tomorrow in a text last night and i haven't replied. So i either never reply to it or I have her round. Have dinner, sex etc. and say...
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    Best way to handle "taking a break"

    What's the best way to handle the situation when a girl says she wants to take a break? I see it as she wants to break up and will use it as a trial period to make sure it's the right decision. Should you give her the time? Should you just end it and force her to deal with the loss?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I actually tried a couple of times to simply get up and leave and felt like I had it sorted, but just as I reached the door I had to stop. I know things will get better and I know I'll find someone else. The problem is I don't really want to. I think I'd take her back in a second, but deep...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I begged like a little girl. I knew what I was meant to do, but the fear of losing her was just too great.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 1 almost complete. Just over one and a half years. She Never seemed fully into it. Really struggling at the moment, but know it's for the best.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 1 starting tomorrow. She is on her way over tonight for our last night together as we're breaking up. I've already tried to convince her it's a mistake to break up, so already fvcked things a little. She'll be leaving mine in the morning for the last time and I know I will be able to not...
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    Maintaining their interest

    As I mentioned, quite like this one. I'm seeing another girl but if I could make this permanent, I would. Got to think about settling down and focusing on one women some day? Anyway, back to the subject... Any tips would be appreciated! :)
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    Maintaining their interest

    So I think I've managed to turn things around a little with a girl I'm seeing and believe I'm getting positive results from not texting too much etc. She will text 3-4 times if I don't reply etc. she will nearly always text first even if she sent 3-4 that were not replied to the night before...
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    She's losing interest. Dump her or NC?

    Ok, I see your points. We didn't text yesterday and I won't text her until i get one from her. There was talk of her staying over tonight because she is going away for the weekend, but I'll not contact her about it. If she says she can't come over, I'll pretend I'm not bothered, it she doesn't...
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    She's losing interest. Dump her or NC?

    GADavid: wow, just read your "regret" thread and it's like reading a post by future me! That is what I'm going to be posting unless I sort my head out and change my behaviour!
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