"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Attention seekers

dbx

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What is the best way to treat attention seekers?

I'm dating a girl that seems to thrive on attention from others, but is just a big tease.

She'll flirt then walk away having had no interest in the first place.

We're dating and it's going well, but can't figure out the best way to treat her to maintain her interest.

Is it she loses interest as soon as she sees she has someone's?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Peaks&Valleys

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dbx said:
Is it she loses interest as soon as she sees she has someone's?
Think you answered your own question here.

You know her kryptonite so....

Once she realizes she's got your undivided attention she moves on.....so just don't give it to her....make her earn it. Let her chase you. Don't take her seriously on anything. Ignore questions she asks, laugh at statements she makes....then when she asks for an explanation of why you're lauging, change the subject. If you see her seek out attention tell her: "that's cute." When she starts to tell you a story...check your phone.

Just do what she does to everyone else, it will drive her insane. :up:
 

VladPatton

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Compulsively flake on her. This will not end well, so you may as well have some fun with her. If these girls have attention from 10 guys, she'll seek 20. Once she gets 20 AFC's she'll seek 50, then 100, and so on. You'll be one of the many gears in her psychotic attention seeking machine. Good thing is that you picked up on it. Deny her any attention and rid yourself of this headache of a girl before she hurts you.
 

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^What they said. I just finished dealing with one for the first time.
Its a waste of time.
Shes the reason why I found this site.
These type of b!tches are crazy AF!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SemperDJ

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dbx said:
What is the best way to treat attention seekers?

I'm dating a girl that seems to thrive on attention from others, but is just a big tease.

She'll flirt then walk away having had no interest in the first place.

We're dating and it's going well, but can't figure out the best way to treat her to maintain her interest.

Is it she loses interest as soon as she sees she has someone's?
Just take her on a little boat ride, have you're fun and leave her where she's standing.
That's what I did, these types of woman ain't worth keeping around unless you're prepared for some type of drama in the near future.
 

idoloveromance

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Attention seekers like getting attention. women like guys who doesn't really give them what they want as much as they want it. That's really how a woman is. So give her attention but not that much.
 

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1. Drop her ass.
2. Call her an attention wh0re. Will piss them off, but it's a little dose of their own medicine.
3. Show signs of low interest, and give mixed signals.
4. Give one word text responses.

These are all just some things I do.
 
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