"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just broken up with my gf. have the option of her coming over tomorrow to have a last night together and say goodbye.

Should I? Shouldn't I?

She offered tomorrow in a text last night and i haven't replied. So i either never reply to it or I have her round. Have dinner, sex etc. and say goodbye.

Don't know what to do for the best. WOuld like her to possibly try get me back one day...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just never felt like she was fully into this and it caused problems as a result. trust issues etc. we just kept ending up fighting and thinking about breaking up, so we just did. we broke up for like a month twice before.
 
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I'm surprised people aren't calling you a faggot for having a girlfriend
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It was my idea, so don't think she's trying to get me back. Although I suggested it, I'm now not sure.

I know I shouldn't, but I think I want her back.

With that in mind, what is best?:
1. don't reply to her text and go no contact (our last meeting was arguing etc.)
2. see her tomorrow. don't talk about issues. have a good time, have sex etc. then go no contact
 
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I'd do it. Completely ravage her, drain her of everything then ravage her some more. After that disappear completely for a couple months or so, then randomly invite her over for drinks or something one day. Profit. You've gained a new fvck buddy.
 
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It depends on how well he can play it. If he feels confident enough then yes, bang her for one last time. If not, then just go NC... NEXT !!
 
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skinnyguy said:
I'm surprised people aren't calling you a faggot for having a girlfriend
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Can't you just go away for good. :down:
 
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adam225 said:
It depends on how well he can play it. If he feels confident enough then yes, bang her for one last time. If not, then just go NC... NEXT !!
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Confident about what? I can bring her over and spend the night making her orgasm and then do NC. No doubts there.

I'm just wondering which is the best idea taking into consideration I may want her to break NC in a month or so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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