"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maintaining their interest

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So I think I've managed to turn things around a little with a girl I'm seeing and believe I'm getting positive results from not texting too much etc.

She will text 3-4 times if I don't reply etc. she will nearly always text first even if she sent 3-4 that were not replied to the night before.

I just wanted some tips on maintaining and increasing her interest. I genuinely like her and the interest I want to create is not simply for my ego. I want her interest to match mine.

I will keep doing what I'm doing but slightly worried she will get bored on it. Do they eventually give up if you act scarce in between seeing them?

When I do see her I'm all over her... Really affectionate and always make her orgasm. Multiple times :)

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As I mentioned, quite like this one. I'm seeing another girl but if I could make this permanent, I would.

Got to think about settling down and focusing on one women some day?

Anyway, back to the subject... Any tips would be appreciated! :)
 
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This kind of thinking will make you lose the girl.

Think of it like investments, if you don't diversify your portfolio and put all your eggs in one basket, you take the biggest risk. This means that you put all your efforts into the basket and constantly worry about it. Let's assume you have many other investments, if one loses value, you know that the others will have a chances of increasing. You don't care to much about the declining investment because there is more in your portfolio.

Older/Experienced DJ on these boards will tell you to spin plates to identify quality women that you are looking for. You won't see the trees from the forest if you already want an LTR before she does.
 
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