"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maintaining their interest

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Don Juan
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So I think I've managed to turn things around a little with a girl I'm seeing and believe I'm getting positive results from not texting too much etc.

She will text 3-4 times if I don't reply etc. she will nearly always text first even if she sent 3-4 that were not replied to the night before.

I just wanted some tips on maintaining and increasing her interest. I genuinely like her and the interest I want to create is not simply for my ego. I want her interest to match mine.

I will keep doing what I'm doing but slightly worried she will get bored on it. Do they eventually give up if you act scarce in between seeing them?

When I do see her I'm all over her... Really affectionate and always make her orgasm. Multiple times :)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As I mentioned, quite like this one. I'm seeing another girl but if I could make this permanent, I would.

Got to think about settling down and focusing on one women some day?

Anyway, back to the subject... Any tips would be appreciated! :)
 
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This kind of thinking will make you lose the girl.

Think of it like investments, if you don't diversify your portfolio and put all your eggs in one basket, you take the biggest risk. This means that you put all your efforts into the basket and constantly worry about it. Let's assume you have many other investments, if one loses value, you know that the others will have a chances of increasing. You don't care to much about the declining investment because there is more in your portfolio.

Older/Experienced DJ on these boards will tell you to spin plates to identify quality women that you are looking for. You won't see the trees from the forest if you already want an LTR before she does.
 
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