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    Why haven't you chumps considered rape yet? Seriously.

    From The Moral Animal, by Robert Wright: "Men with extremely low self-esteem, given continued frustration with women, may eventually resort to rape. There is ongoing debate within evolutionary psychology over whether rape is an adaptation, a designed strategy that any boy might grow up to adopt...
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    Not everyone can be alpha. Just accept that you're a beta.

    For all you recovering AFCs who just read the Game and a few Gunwitch threads, are tipsy off a temporary confidence-buzz, and think you're going to be a playboy now, just think again. Sure, you can change by not being so passive and not letting women walk over you, but, ultimately, your...
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    Wanna make friends/get a girlfriend? Don't move to my city. This place sucks.

    You may have heard from word of mouth or on the news that Vancouver is rated as one of the best cities in the world to live in, but, from what I've experienced, this is BS. I moved in the area less than a year ago from the East Coast, and the changes are shocking. First of all, the cost of...
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    Anybody here on psychiatric medication? Has it worked for you?

    I'm just curious to see if anybody else on SS is taking psych meds. I know a lot of people came to this forum for confidence, anxiety, or depression issues involving females, and sometimes it reaches the point where professional help and a course of meds are advised. If so, have they helped...
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    Colorado shooter: Was he a virgin? Serious question.

    So with all this hype surrounding the Aurora shooting incident and James Holmes, a thread has popped up in the AE forum... I've noticed, though, that it has evolved into a heated argument about gun restrictions, the 2nd amendment, government rights, etc., instead of actually focusing on the...
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    I did what you guys told me... but the b*tch still pushes my buttons.

    Ok here we go again... The cousin that I broke off as much contact as possible with is being relentless. This one, of course, for those know my history. So whenever I see her at family get-togethers or parties, she shows up, full make-up and everything, without her boyfriend. I say Hi to her...
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    Poor social skills = 90% of the problem? Now what do I do?

    Ever since I was in junior high, I have been a very shy, introverted kid. Throughout my high school and early university years, I was always very withdrawn, unpopular, and had few friends. I have zero sexual experience with the opposite sex. Eventually it reached the point where I realized I...
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    Strangers (women) who openly insult or offend you in public?

    So a few days ago I was heading home from downtown and got on the Skytrain. I was a little stoned, coming back from the weed cafe. I may have just been a little paranoid off the kush, but honestly I couldn't help but feel I was getting bad vibes from some of the women I passed by as I walked...
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    Short-term vs. Long-term mating strategy? Where does true confidence come from?

    I heard Tyler Durden talk about the importance of "state" when sexually attracting women. A man can either utilize short-term mating strategy or long-term mating strategy. In the second option, a man gains his confidence from "crutches". He will ask himself questions like "Do I have enough...
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    Weird situation here. I WANT to get friend-zoned by a hot girl.

    Now who's this special girl? For those of you know my history, it's my cousin. Yup, the cousin who I wanted to bang months ago. Remember the sh** storm that ensued? If not, here. Well, luckily, I came to my senses and decided not to bang her. Why? Because, on one hand, it's my cousin and...
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    SoSuave virgins. Maybe your standards are too high?

    As many of you know, I am a 21 year old virgin. I have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I'm turning 22 at the end of the summer. I feel that I've waited way too long. I'm getting sick of this sh**. Approach anxiety and fear of girls, in general, has dominated my life just way...
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    Frenemies. Cut them off or keep them close?

    "Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer." Enemies can strengthen you, keeping you on your toes and fueling a competitive spirit, but at what point should a "frenemy" be cut loose? If any of you remember one of my earlier threads, I had sent a bunch of sexually-inappropriate messages...
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    Your dog will always love you more than your girlfriend.

    How do I know this? Try locking your dog in your car trunk for an hour. Then come back and open it up. Your dog will perk up, tail wagging, eager to see you. He will still love you. Now try this with your girlfriend. The results will not be the same. She will hate you. Disregard females...
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    OK so I'm back at this site after a little break. People think I'm gay? Is this true?

    So I was chilling with my cousin and his wife today, and we met up with the crew. We got hella lifted, and it was all BC Bud, and I grew up on the east Coast, so this was a new level for me. I started talk about aliens, ninja assassin corporations, rivalry gangs, God, math and danced a little...
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    NEVER tell a girl you're a virgin.

    Lie your sorry-ass off. While I've been taking a break from this site, I went out and got a girlfriend. I told her I was a virgin while drunk/high. This turns women off. Don't do it. She dumped me this morning, that f*ckin' slvt. She had a husband, but talked to me dirty anyway. Take advice...
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    My life after the Tsunami. What should I do now?

    So in this thread, I intended to kill my ego temporarily and do something really bold to see what would happen. As I mentioned, my reputation is ruined, everyone in my family and social circle thinks I'm a mental case, and all the related girls think I'm a creep and pervert. I have been on a...
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    Decided I may as well go for broke. No luck yet. But at least I tried.

    So I sent about 50 or 60 different girls on Facebook the same (type of) message: "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you." Also "You're beautiful and I want to ravish you. Let's have sex and never stop." Or some sort of variation of those messages depending on how well I know the girl...
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    Women who laugh at the idea of DJism?

    So I went to the mall today. I was going to try to approach girls and get numbers, but pvssied out. Oh well, I'll try next time, and keep focusing on self-improvement. I'll start keeping a journal once I get the ball rolling and keep you guys posted. On another note, I ended up at Chapter's...
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    I wish I was a hunk or a cool guy

    So many jokers have motorcycles. I can't have one?... Can't afford it. I have a cool uncle though. Can't have everything. Can't kiss a beautiful girl AND have a cool uncle. IF I had to choose between kissing a beautiful girl on the mouth, or the lips, and a jetpack....I would choose the...
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    Fight Club: A Lesson In Masculinity. This changed my life.

    "Losing all hope is freedom". "Once we've lost everything, we're free to do anything." "This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time." "You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not...
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