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Just skimming this....my thoughts are that you should absolutely put your own goals and ambitions before your girlfirend's goals and ambitions. You can still support her but don't do it at your own expense and don't support her so much that it detractd you from your own pursuits. Honestly, it...

Definitely not. The hottest girl was boring in the sack. Sex with a BPD was mind-blowing but she was not the hottest girl I slept with.

The problem is you treated her like a potential LTR which came across as boring and unattractive. She knows she can have you if she wants to but instead she wants someone better than her...someone she thinks might not want her and that she doesn't deserve. Instead of acting interested in a...

Treat a slut like a princess and a princess like a slut.

Tell her it is because you think she has a lot of potential...

Stop trying to watch the movie and take action and make a move.

Stop thinking or talking to her about relationships or your feelings and take action and make a move on her. Spin more plates and date other girls.

She is definitely dating other people and she is probably fvcking someone else. Don't be so needy and clingy. Stop texting and calling this girl. Spin more plates and date other girls.

The only way to beat a BPD is to walk away. If you want to continue fvcking a BPD, then you also need to be fvcking other non-BPD girls. The problem with BPD's is that they are crazy but the sex is amazing and it has to be...otherwise you wouldn't put up with all of her BPD B.S. Ultimately...

Don't put her on a pedestal. She isn't as attractive as she used to be and her looks are on the decline. She is OLD. Spin more plates. Find younger and better looking girls. Find other activities and hobbies to keep yourself busy and make yourself a better man.

BPD's will take you on an emotional roller coaster ride with them. Usually the best thing about BPD's is the great sex. The longer you stay with a BPD, the greater the chance that you will confuse your addiction to the great sex with her to be genuine feelings for her. After the BPD has...

I'd like to keep the plate spinning without committing to exclusivity and without lying. That can't be impossible. I understand replacing her. That's fine. I'm busy with other plates but if possible I'd like to keep her spinning. Perhaps, this is just the way it is and eventually you...

I had a plate recently pull the I love you card and then give me an ultimatum that I be exclusive with only her or that we can no longer see each other. I tried explaining that I enjoyed spending time with her but wasn't interested in being in an exclusive relationship. She seemed pissed at...

chuk15...you sound like a broken AFC record. It's boring. You won't compromise asking. OK...then ask. You still need to escalate first and then get her naked and start fingering her or eating her out and then see if she offers her consent without you even asking. If she doesn't offer...

You don't ASK for consent. You make a MOVE and ESCALATE. And you keep ESCALATING until she is either fvcking you or she says no. If she resists or says no, then pull back a step or two and then re-initiate progressive escalation until you are either having sex or she says no.

It sounds like you are doing a really good job. Keep it up No one said it was easy. You really want to not think about her at all. You deleted her phone number and pictures. That is good but do you have anything else that reminds you of her? Gifts, letters, etc. - you may want to get...

Well, theoretically the telephone companies will have records that show that was your phone # at the time...so changing your number now won't really help you. Take it as a lesson learned in case there is a next time. Use a pay phone or purchase a prepaid phone with cash and use that for...

Yikes...it really sounds like you have a serious case of oneitus. Be careful. Even if things seems to start off well you run the risk of being too into her and acting too interested and completely messing things up. You need to treat this girl the SAME as any other girl that you would...

Even if you are blocking your number, if you are making calls from your cell phone or home phone, then a court order could force the phone company to provide the woman with your information so that she can collect child support from you. You would have been smarter calling from a pay phone.

Thanks for everyone's feedback. I have the frame of mind that everything is fair game until they ask and you agree to be exclusive with them. I've had two of the girls ask and I explained that I wasn't ready to be exclusive with them at this point in time. I don't consider that to be...