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what do you say to her that can assure her she is not showing signs of a slut and us going to fast!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
show her she is not a slut
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fly By Night
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Women have to show some signs of interest to show that they are on the market, but the stupid part about it is that showing any degree of interest can get them labeled as a "slut".
But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
ilikecharlene
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If she's a slut, so be it. It's not a crime to enjoy sex, and morals are subject to the individual.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Just be playful and light-hearted, use plausible-deniability to make it look like it just happened and for her to be able to blame you for seduction because you are so damn good. Then, once she is isolated treat her like a slut that she is.
Donnie Darko
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Treat a slut like a princess and a princess like a slut.
When they love you (i.e. have high interest level, i.e. are attracted, i.e. have orgasms with you) they are always faithful, at least in their heart and mind.
With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.
With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.