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what do you say to her that can assure her she is not showing signs of a slut and us going to fast!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
show her she is not a slut
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fly By Night
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Women have to show some signs of interest to show that they are on the market, but the stupid part about it is that showing any degree of interest can get them labeled as a "slut".
But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
ilikecharlene
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If she's a slut, so be it. It's not a crime to enjoy sex, and morals are subject to the individual.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Just be playful and light-hearted, use plausible-deniability to make it look like it just happened and for her to be able to blame you for seduction because you are so damn good. Then, once she is isolated treat her like a slut that she is.
Donnie Darko
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Treat a slut like a princess and a princess like a slut.
When they love you (i.e. have high interest level, i.e. are attracted, i.e. have orgasms with you) they are always faithful, at least in their heart and mind.
With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.
With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.