Donnie Darko
Don Juan
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- Feb 16, 2010
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I had a plate recently pull the I love you card and then give me an ultimatum that I be exclusive with only her or that we can no longer see each other.
I tried explaining that I enjoyed spending time with her but wasn't interested in being in an exclusive relationship.
She seemed pissed at the decision and said we can no longer talk until I'm single and not seeing any other girls.
I told her that I wanted to see her but that I wasn't going to stop seeing the other girls.
She responded that she won't chase or compete for me and reiterated that I should call when I'm single and not dating anyone else.
Do you just let a plate like this completely go and break all contact?
Or do you just give her a week to cool off and then call and ask her out again and just ignore her protests about you dating other girls?
Just curious at other people's experience dealing with plates that give the exclusivity ultimatum.
Just to reemphasize I'm definitely not willing to drop my other plates for this girl at this point.
Ideally I'd like to keep this plate spinning without committing to being exclusive.
I tried explaining that I enjoyed spending time with her but wasn't interested in being in an exclusive relationship.
She seemed pissed at the decision and said we can no longer talk until I'm single and not seeing any other girls.
I told her that I wanted to see her but that I wasn't going to stop seeing the other girls.
She responded that she won't chase or compete for me and reiterated that I should call when I'm single and not dating anyone else.
Do you just let a plate like this completely go and break all contact?
Or do you just give her a week to cool off and then call and ask her out again and just ignore her protests about you dating other girls?
Just curious at other people's experience dealing with plates that give the exclusivity ultimatum.
Just to reemphasize I'm definitely not willing to drop my other plates for this girl at this point.
Ideally I'd like to keep this plate spinning without committing to being exclusive.