A fatal mistake has led to a loss of the power

[joverby]

Ya. I really should've kept my frame but I was emotional.

It's so true too about not letting her see emotions. Because right away when I came over to get my sh1t she was mad that it didn't but me. She said that too. Just exclaimed something about how I don't even care.(Not like it should've mattered because it was over)

And when she originally told me to come over and get my sh1t I just said OK, and it also p1ssed her off.

So ya, moral of the story, be indifferent. That's the only time I really got any reaction out of her.

I know I fvcked up with that text, bad. I could tell it did bug her as a lot of her updates(she's a facebook AW) were about being miserable / can't wait to leave the sh1tty country.(She's on vacation now)

I'm not holding my breath, and everytime I think about the bad sh1t I know I don't want to be with her. But I always think maybe I was just being a little dramatic over sh1t and shouldn't of let it bug me.(Like when she was over at some people's house for her friends birthday and she didn't return a call or text after I called her, and the following day didn't get ahold of me. I called her later and she was hanging out w/ said friend again, that's when the fight started)

Damn , didnt' mean to rant. But yea, I doubt it's going to happen but I have a feeling it would be hard to reject her if she did initiate contact with me. But she is VERY stubborn, to the point of being ignorant. So I doubt she would anyway. After we broke up the first time, I called her up a couple hours later (this is supposedly a mistake) but she was crying and said she made a mistake. But who knows, if I was indifferent maybe she would've came back on her own. Hard to say.

[Edit]: @kal luke I don't think it will especially considering how stubborn she is. But ya facebook isn't good for me. Because every time I see her posts it's just a painful reminder.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

joverby, very very few women are strong. She is probably much more affected than you do. But now she feels she is better than you, because you started begging...

Women are the greatest players, they are great at pretending they don´t care about you, even when they are deeply in love....
If you step aside for a while, and if she loves you, she won´t be able to stop herself from reinitiating contact..

 

[Kal_Luke]

I hope that happens to me. Oh I never said but the woman this thread is about is a school nurse, which I think is super hot. Damn. Its only been a few days but I'm having a hard time not getting in touch with her. I need some inspiration.

 

[Donnie Darko]

Don't put her on a pedestal. She isn't as attractive as she used to be and her looks are on the decline. She is OLD.

Spin more plates. Find younger and better looking girls.

Find other activities and hobbies to keep yourself busy and make yourself a better man.

 

[Kal_Luke]

Yeah. She told me herself 'don't make my pedestal too high cos it'll hurt when I fall off' guess the only person it ended up hurting was me. I'm having a hard time regrouplng, I have a bit of a vaccuum where she was now and I don't have much going on in my life.

 

[DonGorgon]

Kal Luke, most women are very weak, though they like to appear otherwise. She is NOT powerful, if you show you don´t care I´ll she´ll come after you. It´s so guaranteed....

they are strong when it comes to options and not have to give a damn about any guy cause they have soo many others..

 

[Poonani Maker]

they are strong when it comes to options and not have to give a damn about any guy cause they have soo many others..

Can't give rep. Sadly, this is the case, even if you've fvcked her multiple times. I have one (24 mom of 2), fvcked her all Summer. I know that at any moment it could end cause, branches swing womens' way 9 to 10 times a DAY. Pvssy hardly ever "swings" our way. We have to work!

 

[Kal_Luke]

It's really not an issue of guys, I don't think. She lives in my home town. It is quite possible that I might see her about. What do I do?

 

[Poonani Maker]

It's really not an issue of guys, I don't think. She lives in my home town. It is quite possible that I might see her about. What do I do?

Have another woman on your arm, but she probably still has feelings for you, and you could probably definitely hit it again, because she'll come across a dude or "dudes" who she may let hit it, and when she compares the way You hit it to the way They hit it, she might come to her senses that you are the best thing she's got going and come back to you. This just happened to me today, but my girlfriend of this Summer never was really "breaking off" anything with me. I just sort of Eased in to her life, fvcking her while Never badmouthing her "boyfriend." I met him for the first time last Saturday. Today she texts me that she dumped him and that she wants to hookup tonight. Who am I to deny her request? I said, "I can do that" and "I was going to call you later." She's really sappy for me right now. While I don't love her as she is: drugs, smoker, a new flaming tattoo on her right hip, financial disarray, 2 children, I do love what she could become: clean n' sober, non-smoker, 24 yr old sweet girl that she already is. It's like fvcking a teen girl the way she fvcks and due to her petiteness. I think that this may be due to her never "growing up" due to drug usage since her mid teens. If she did not fvck good, and did not worship me and compliment me, and Always want to be with me, I'd have ditched her long ago back in June. I like the f'd up girls cause they're not mind-controlled by the mainstream feminist thought. They're not clean. They're not into TV, facebook, cellphones, blah blah blah. They're not connected to the system; therefore, they can just focus in on Me and not every other pecker trying to get at her.