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  1. Konada

    Expanding your social circle to meet women

    I've been using primarily OLD so far to meet women and I just feel that sane-level headed women which are far more enjoyable to be with are met through social circles. Problem is, I spent a good deal of my college years being a lone wolf and that has definitely impaired me in social circle game...
  2. Konada

    How do you deal with a change in venue

    Originally had a date with a girl from tinder, she texted me last minute for a change in venue. Her: Hey can you meet me later at the east side instead? Me: Hmm did something come up? Her: I have a meeting with a friend that is ending later than expected, so if its convenient for you we can...
  3. Konada

    Urgent: Dilemma should I go for it?

    I matched with a fvcking hot 16yo on Tinder and in my city the legal age for s3x is 16. Barely legal, she wants to meet me tonight, should I go for it?
  4. Konada

    Do you copy paste this to every girl?

    Been using a template for sending out messages to women on OLD and this seems like an overt test I can't seem to pass. What responses are there to this?
  5. Konada

    How to become a magnetic man?

    Has anyone here done this before? I always find that I have a very low presence among groups that don't know me, could it be because I'm 5'8 125lbs? What are some of the ways I can develop into a person of presence and being able to draw people to me. Also what are some of the signs that you...
  6. Konada

    Man of Steel and Velvet

    Has anyone read this book? Thoughts on it?
  7. Konada

    Field Report 2: Time Constraint and Abundance

    @guru1000 I had to work a good game to get this girl HB6.5 out on a date while I was working other prospects as well. In the end she asked me out for a drink. Key notes: - I was present in the moment, kino is really just clockwork to me right now. - Lots of reciprocation and caressing - At...
  8. Konada

    Getting the date set

    Occasionally I encounter the flaky bs and wonder how I can play this out, these girls are from tinder <After exchanging 2 messages> Me: I'm not much into the back and forth texting or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me...
  9. Konada

    Am I self sabotaging?

    So recently I got a new job and coupled with dance and working out, I have no time for dating over the weekdays. Inevitably some of the times where online girls agree to dates fall within a week between my next available weekend. (I.e scheduling dates 1 week in advance) Am I sabotaging my...
  10. Konada

    How could I have improved?

    About 2 weeks ago I set up a date with a HB8 from tinder but she flaked with an excuse of celebrating her friend's end of finals, 2 days before our date. No biggie, I let a week blow over and ask her to join me for a drink last Saturday, she says 'I'll see if I can join you' and convo dies...
  11. Konada

    Field Report: Time Constraint & Abundance

    I had 3 dates lined up for this week, 1 lined up on Friday and 2 lined up on Saturday. 2 HB8s and 1 HB6, both of the 8s flaked which means probably my SMV isn't high enough yet. Thanks to @guru1000 to putting me on this road. Its pretty amazing since I don't remember much of what I said. Just...
  12. Konada

    How would you have played this one out?

    Met this broad on tinder, nothing came out of it because I was put off by her attitude but I'm curious as to how it could've been played out differently. Me: Are you asking me out for coffee? Her: If thats your way of asking girls out, thats not cute. Me: Nah that's not me, too lame. We can...
  13. Konada

    Having trouble setting up dates

    This is a recent problem I've been running into, I get the 'yes' but when I try to set up logistics I get the ole runaround. Me: Sat/Sun 8pm. Which day works best for you? Her: I'm packed fully this week sorry, how about next? Me: Sure. I'm free wed/thurs next week. Her: Actually I prefer...
  14. Konada

    Give yourself permission to be creepy

    I read this in Mark Manson's book but it never really clicked in me until today. I believe most of us have been in that situation before. You see a hot girl, your primal brain kicks in and you're about to walk up to her and say 'hi', what happens? Your conscious mind says 'wait this isn't the...
  15. Konada

    I never felt so frustrated in a long time

    So about a few weeks ago a girl in my psychology class caught my eye and somehow she is the first one that made me go 'I must approach her'. Problem is, we are assigned seats and she sits at the opposite end of the class and I never get the chance to approach her after class or during our break...
  16. Konada

    Using my dad's car as a test?

    Recently got a girl's number and a date with her. My dad overhead our conversation and basically after I dropped the call offered me his BMW 5 Series for the night. Should I take him up on his offer or is it better to hide my financial status?
  17. Konada

    I think I'm reaching the point of learned helplessness

    Been on a dry spell since November. Most of the time I don't even feel like dealing with women nowadays and rather stick to my right hand. The times I thought I have girls interested in me, all of them turned out to be attached. The single ones won't give me the time of the day. Sometimes I feel...
  18. Konada

    First date vday. Good idea?

    As above. Just met a girl yesterday and got her number. Will it put too much uneeded pressure for a first date?
  19. Konada

    Maybe...its the way we game

    After being here on awhile and looking at countless threads of posters complaining about the low quality of women we are pulling, I can't help but see that the common denominator is us. Surely we are doing something to attract these low quality b!tches. Things like negging, not calling for 3...
  20. Konada

    I went off the deep-end today

    Usually I deal well with flakes but today something snapped inside me. I got flaked on because 'she had to go pick up some guy from the airport.' from Tinder. The thought of her getting fvcked senseless by some jetlagged dude while I am burying myself in books infuriated me. I started blaming...
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