"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I went off the deep-end today

Konada

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Usually I deal well with flakes but today something snapped inside me. I got flaked on because 'she had to go pick up some guy from the airport.' from Tinder.

The thought of her getting fvcked senseless by some jetlagged dude while I am burying myself in books infuriated me. I started blaming everyone except myself, the pu$$ified men for creating this cesspool generation of females. Every female I looked upon with contempt, I didn't see humans, rather pieces of trash that needed to be treated with less dignity than dogs. It was a very dark moment for me, I felt so much hatred for them and how even the ugliest of b!tches could pull in this cesspool of new age boys.

I went for dance practice thereafter and suddenly everything changed. I was having fun with normal sane girls and suddenly I became grateful for what I had in my life. Women that are perfectly OK do not need OLD.

It's amazing how my perspective of women changed from misogyny to gratefulness all in 1 day. Though the most important lesson of all is that women on OLD are all trash, treat them as such until they prove otherwise. I've experienced nothing but dry spells for the past 2 months and the countless rejections whether you like it or not do add up over time to the frustration and bitterness. Never use OLD solely for plates, because it will only detriment your appreciation for women everywhere and harm your chances rather than help you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree, OLD is flawed mostly in that you can easily take people for granted and it's easy to think out a "game". It makes the entire process fake and staged. It's more fun bumping into women organically with real life interactions. Gotta think on your feet, be spontaneous and be yourself all natural.

I can certainly see how guys see women with contempt after OLD. I avoid that sh!t like the plague, I will independently judge the real deal.
 
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