“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am I self sabotaging?

Konada

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So recently I got a new job and coupled with dance and working out, I have no time for dating over the weekdays. Inevitably some of the times where online girls agree to dates fall within a week between my next available weekend. (I.e scheduling dates 1 week in advance) Am I sabotaging my chances by scheduling that far in advance when I have literally no time during the weekdays to hang out?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you don't have time you don't have time. If you can't plan closer you can't plan closer. Try it out, don't ask us. If it doesn't work out you have to prioritize, maybe a little less dancing and working out to have time for women.
 
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Grewd said:
If you don't have time you don't have time. If you can't plan closer you can't plan closer. Try it out, don't ask us. If it doesn't work out you have to prioritize, maybe a little less dancing and working out to have time for women.
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I probably can't draw any patterns with my limited dating experience. All I can say is that when a girl wants to flake she will, just looking for general opinions for things that I can control.
 
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You can't draw any patterns on your limited experience, hence my advice to try it out to gain such experience. You can control how you manage your time. If a girl wants to flake she will do it regardless of what you do.
 
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