"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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could work @Jor-El for sure
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I think I’m nightgame , where it’s darker, such wigs could be undetectable tbh.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you go down the wig road,just make sure its applied properly,maintained,and not a piece of cheap crap from Ebay. In my previous workplace,I came across many such blokes,and its amazing how they open up to you,Iv seen some wigs that were indectectable,was amazed when told,and some that even Stevie Wonder could spot. You cannot buy a wig for £10,slap it on your head any old how and expect it to look real,and yet,iv seen many blokes do exactly this
Are you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?

I dread to think of the state of the scalp afterwards...
 

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Shpeaking of Connery.. :D

If that gave you a lol , definitely check out Arnie in ‘Predator The Musicial’.. it’s a ripper :rofl:
 

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Are you referring to the glued-on ones that last for weeks?

I dread to think of the state of the scalp afterwards...
Yeah, well one of my mates had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that road
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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are you an Aussie lol
It was Pulp Fiction- Vincent Vega
Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
 

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Yeah, well one of my mate had a "hair system" (posh name for wig!) and it did look good to be fair,but he said was very sweaty...which stopped him using it...but I wouldnt criticize any one for going down that road
Some hair systems do look really good. But yeah I imagine it might get uncomfortable to wear.

Plus, if a chick starts grabbing the top of your head when things get hot and heavy, it could be a problem.
 

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Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
Fabio agrees

god damn.
just look at him. lol.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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@MatureDJ
I recently had an app chat w a chick about Indiana Jones movies. He favorite was The Last Crusade “cos it has TWO of the hottest guys in that”

and Connery was bald in that movie..

hey so maybe there is hope after all. (Just follow your S with an H ) :rofl:
 

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Aha! Yes. thats it,im getting my movies mangled! Having rocked the long hair myself before now,I do have a liking for it,and I tell ya,I found the lay-deez do like a man with long hair...its just the maintemance..man,its a faff,new respect for the ladies with long locks after that
Antoine LaConte also agrees

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This is interesting
I did not know about Matthew MacConaghey
This stuff is rife in Hollywood….
Ted Danson, Brendan Fraser.. there’s a big list


There is also speculation about Jimmy Fallon
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Fabio agrees

god damn.
just look at him. lol.
Perfect hazel, hunter eyes; a jaw goinal angle that could be used as a protractor; such a great hairline that he grows it out like a chick just to mog everyone even more; height & frame, and just look how his wrist mogs the watch.
 

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Perfect hazel, hunter eyes; a jaw goinal angle that could be used as a protractor; such a great hairline that he grows it out like a chick just to mog everyone even more; height & frame, and just look how his wrist mogs the watch.
nah bro.. looks don’t matter
It’s all in your head.
You just gotta improooove brother , trust and beleive 1000% :rolleyes::rofl:

Lolz
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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